[Retrograde rebound]

How do you look at your next partnership coming from the one with teared emotion from its endless drama? How long do you take before jumping into the next? How will you treat the next partnership? What does the backdrop of the partner say about where they come from? Do you know why?

A rebound is something of a double edged sides, it needs those involved in it to be supportive of one another. You both got an experience of a common something though differing in circumstances, and that the key to your bind. What sometimes puts you off rails is finding selves not going the same direction yet of the same mind to your set goal.

Past experience a blast of good memories whilst a trauma for the next. The formation of a new partnership comes with a lot of interesting things to be very knowledgeable about and some to be questioned before going in too deep. How we address these issues an options list to tick from. The biggest challenges to work on are balance and commonity.

Retrograde is when you turn in opposite direction yet together, bringing to the fore the question of what will you achieve that way. If you go clockwise and the partner going anti-clockwise, clearly you aren't as winning as you imagined. So, coming in on rebound course and on retrograde, not much will be in your bag.

In conclusion: in getting each other from the previous experiences of either good or bad, each need to offload all that was good and bad, how they felt of those experiences and what they felt should've been where they felt wronged. Whether in life or in business, if you want to build a solid relationship with someone, you ought to start there with heart to mind sessions. We sometimes fail in business as we treat it like a foreign phenomenon to our feelings, while it's very personal. Let's be prograde and good things will come out of our relationships...dp 

[Refrain from bad vibes]

Life of business is infested with many tiny squabbles that if not managed well can lead to frenimity bubbles. The danger lies in you not knowing how to deal with disappointments and angers stemming from failures and mistakes. At times it just drains you, especially if you're faced with bad communication.

The key is developing the ability to spot at face value any signs of future troubles right there and then. For example, inviting a clueless somebody into business and be expecting them to have an instant understanding of what it means being in that strange space. Truth is, the business world is a strange space for one to find selves in, hence you lose friends and family so quick because of their failure to be sensible, supportive and respectful of your chosen path.

In business there're no quick earnings, everything takes time in that you build in stages that require recapitalization from time to time. Flop is, many people find the idea of being a business person as a fashionable status that they can do with success if they wanted to anytime. Fact is, there's no space for such in business.

The mistake we make at times is accepting guarantees and loans sans getting it right what they are in their truest sense from those advancing it to us. We need to educate those we engage with enough about relations with businesspersons and money so as to avoid unforeseen boat rockers. Apart from educating others, we too need to be well informed of what we require for our advancements. That'll help a great deal when conversing with others so we not go into arrangements and agreements that aren't peace bearing.

Also, business isn't for the lazy to read and research, unless you have tons of tender bills to your name. How will you communicate your dream and vision to success? Unless you're to work alone, there wouldn't be a need for constant upskilling of self. You need to be abreast with local, national and international current affairs if you're to connect with any aspirant and your prospective partners, investors and consumers with ease for impression. Be not lost in the fog, business is about impression every move you make.

In conclusion: anger is brought unto us  by selves unfortunately in many a times in how we fail to communicate clearly, represent ourselves well and position our both personal and corporate brands well.  How we address wrong takes should tell how matured and willing are we to our retakes. We need each other and how we relate today has an impact on our future, so we should do what's right most of the day in our dealings with others. We need to refrain from bad vibes for our growth...dp

[Peace of your money]

What gives you peaceless patches of times in your quiet moments? I don't want to turn this to me since I'm sensing you contemplate on that. Thing is, I got to learn a lot from experiences given by the business world in conjunction with money, and so are you.

Money creates friendships and breaks them. The security brought by money equates to the dignity depository on someone who's important to the economy. The economy responds better to you and treats your name with respect better than it does to the one with nothing much to their names. The open secret to life is to acquire the most important part of respect and that is money, outstanding leadership and repute. With those you're guaranteed power and more earnings potential. But atop those, you ought to be well read and informed so you be able to keep evolving.

A lot of interesting times we can't tell our value yet saying we know our worth. Our metrics is mostly based on the industry wages and that being our benchmark. It is laughable that in business still a lot of players don't know what they worth, whilst some pity selves against their own bank account digits, plussing that with their business income to arrive at the number stuck on selves as their worth.

No matter how much airtime we may give to the subject, it at the end of the day circle the issue of money. What we make, how we make it; what we lose and how much at what rate and why. It's a matter of ratio and values, that works out personal and collective worth. The standardization determined by factors that are drawn from both personal and professional background basis, academic attributes, self development and the result of the personal brand you are.

How bankable is your personal brand and yourself? How liquid are you? We forget how solvent we are in our worth and only be reminded that the day we want to buy debt. Most of us rank low in current debt buy and but ranking high on unsecured debt futures. With that, we become hard to invest on as we're assets that aren't guaranteeing lossproof to the risk takers in the now moment, unless they find something to hold one onto for their future with them.

In conclusion: then, what happens to the money you're having? Does it earn enough for you? Does it enhance your value in self accume? Does it give you inner happiness and peace? Are you sure where you've put it is secure? If your money doesn't give you peace, where are you moving it to? At the same breath, how confident are you with the peace you'll give to the money of the risk taker on you? The same way you want peace from your money so does them. How you don't want to lose it, so are they. So, work on being thy peace of your money, and so you'll be to that of another's...dp

[Reality is bold and actual]

There's nothing as real about reality than it's realness. When you touch yourself and things, what you feel is tangible and then be those intangible stuffs that you feel and sense yet can't touch. The world of business and career is leaned on both, and same goes for life.

Now, to you: what's your harshest reality? To some of you, reality comes from that view in your mirror, some from every wake, some from looking at peers, but the realness of whatever you see and feel only a result of your comparison and self-judgment. Sometimes it's good to judge yourself before any person does. To others it's a negative thing to your esteem but still done unto you by others, so why not just do it to self then? Unfortunately, the reality you run away from of criticizing self will be met with harsh statements by others to you about you at times, and that's more hurtful than it is unto self.

People live by different standards; some by their own, some by their parents, some by society, others by social class, and however you see it everyone fits in somewhere. So, when you lead, who's standard are you conforming to? Which side are you finding comfort in during your deepest challenges? Gender does also come into play when confronted with tough situational dealings. How one fares pretty much reliant on the behavior and shaped by the gender and standards.

Reality uncovers a lot of clothed flaws. It is only the fabric of that cover that will be the center of attention when the subject is brought to light. It doesn't matter what is underneath, it will definitely meet its reality when time comes, be it its try out, or implementation or conceptualizing process. Those standards will be your own critic before anyone else utters any word about that.

One of the toughest parts to master and conquer is mating of thought and reality. Truth is, you may dream anyhow you may but what rules is the reality to your pursuit of wanting to make it live.

In conclusion: reality is bold and actual, and anything in between hanging on fact or fiction...dp

[Failure an experience to success]

Success a challenge to a failed thought. The only remedy for such a damaged mind is settling doubt that roams free in question how you didn't see it that way or done it the other way. Giving up is the capital builder of non-progression in any situation, as it breeds the culture of surrender to negativity.

When someone fail, we need to look into what they lacked to be successful, or what they didn't do or say, anything that gives an answer to what actually caused the failure. We don't have to judge and but be instead supportive of their courage to do it once again, or teach them how to be better in it come next attempt. Something good out of failure is the lesson learned from that experience, none can take that away from you.

One thing that everyone needs to avoid is reside in their zone of failure in their mental state. Don't give failure that satisfaction, take over its power and assume your position. Let neither a friend, family, partner or anyone have shine on your failure. You should be also understanding of what you've actually failed in, in the process. Is it your dream and vision, is it your family and friends, is it your clients and the general public, or it's just you that you've let down? It matters to your mental balance and courage to do it again.

The danger sometimes some fall into is being hard on self and end up failing to forgive themselves. Don't shed your self-love and esteem because of a mistake, and remember always that there's a reason why we have a retake. Learn to be gentle to your flaws and be understanding of your shortcomings. After your shutter comes your rebuild; a perfect chance to reconstruct, reconcile, and reinvent oneself so you re-emerge a remodeled and better version of self.

In conclusion: we all fail at some point in our lives, but that not saying it's the end of the line. Failure is an important hurdle to factor in our outlook for outcomes. It thus not but mean it should dominate the thought process. To win failure, laugh at its eventuality and voice it out that it ain't over for it as you might not succeed second time around.

Your surest asset in beating failure is your attitude towards life and your dream. If only realize that success has no small in it but rather delivery of the result desired of an achieved goal. In short, failing to be satisfied will not make you be close to attaining your happiness. Set your bar high and net satisfaction that'll feed your soul with fulfillment that will in the end see you content, which is the highest form of happiness. So, fail them all but not your happiness. But, what remains is, failure an experience to your success...dp

[Returning the favour]

Life an entity on its own, and you living it, have to respond to its tendencies in order for you to make it yours and have control over it. Waking up every morning is a renewed chance to do good by your life. How you expand in it a case only you can deliver on.

When life gives you blessings, you ought to be responsive in a way that shows you are grateful unto it. And when it throws at you difficulties, have to emerge out of adversity stronger to show it your capabilities in dealing with anything that challenges others differently. Proving your mettle a direct invite that dares mother nature to reward you for your courage.

We at times do good by others with no expectations of anything in return and but at times with a bit of gratitude expected. What we need to recognize is the natural rewards that mother nature has in store for us. By merely retaining your breath a sign of those rewards, and often not knocking sense to us when we get get lucky with some things in life sans asking. If only we can understand that we live through blessings, conquer through them and under the protection of mother nature's incredible woven web of invincible protective aids.

Just like death and future, what's hidden from us a result of what to excite any mortal as it does frighten. But whatever it is we see it for, life a favour and equally a blessing to the one in receive of, and keeping it longer a favour that one ought to be thankful for.

In conclusion: after life, comes voice, words and numbers, and how we use them determines the amount of favour that mother nature shall bless us with. So, we should in turn return that favour by doing what's good unto the next and to mother nature, and we'll attract the same good advanced. Be good to others...dp

[A content weak leader]

I grew up knowing that as a man I should learn to know as much as I can, so I will in future have answers to as many as possible questions there are to me. As a man, learned to have at least 5 trades that I can survive with, same as now I learned must be the case  with earning potential, that a man of this age should secure multiple income streams. That made me be the person I am today; a weak man who forces his way in through his bit of knowledge.

Being a man is hard yet a blessing at the same time. The most difficult part of it being to lead. A man is by default a leader while a woman by virtue a leader. But then, if you are a default leader, won't your quality be questioned? By quality I include psychological strength, image, values, passion and drive, knowledge base, and relationships handling.

I was taught that a man leader change personalities not characters, in that he has to be mutable so as to suit any situation and condition he's faced up with. I got made aware that there are two vision types for leaders, namely the tunnel vision, which is for puppet leaders and free range vision, which is for vision bearing leaders. Tunnel vision is limiting while free range, well,,speaks for itself.

I from the onset chose freedom over anything and to date leading the pack of vision carrier leaders in exploration of a range of complementary visions within the principal vision. From earlier on I was introduced to the power of TEAM and its benefits, hence I've never done anything alone that had the potential of growing big. As a man, before being anything, you have to be a self-leader as you lead your own life program before leading anyone's. Thus blame self first before the next.

I learned that a human being develops in prime cycles of 7 years, that's why we started schooling at 7, reach puberty at 14, get the keys to life at 21, self-realization stage where you explore opportunities and possibilities until age 28, then to self-actualization until 35, and to 42 be in our defining moment, then to 49, 56, 63, 70, and so forth. Atop that, was the horoscopes and cosmology, all about quality learning out of quantity lessons for your knowledge depth. That's being a man, you need to learn much as you can in building self for whichever career path you're to pursue.

In conclusion: my secret was learning my cradle character, knowing my strengths and leaning on my weaknesses in trying out opportunities and challenging my threats. I never front my strengths as they expose vulnerabilities I won't protect should they be attacked. I learned to rest comfortably in my flaws so I work in them while working on my leadership style. I was told on different occasions how different I are. Why? Still don't know. The best thing about it all is the joy of being in the forefront.

What I grew up sharing is that weak doesn't mean fragile, but simply the state of nature that screams you're the hub of legerity, humanity, certainty, equality, accountability, reliability, tolerance, etc. Being a man means you have to keep working on your individual and collective passion, vision selling, family dream, knowledge spread, and leadership skills, in the quest to be a mature, approachable and reasonable sole, a content weak leader...dp

 

[Be one with the source]

To be a trendsetter is a gift that you should work consistently on. It starts with pole positioning and to leading the race for as long as possible. The taste of power and being first in everything an intoxicating feeling that once had not easy to let off your name, though hard to keep up with the pace.

It doesn't hurt to point out that it starts innate and projected outward. There's something about trendsetters and their trendsetting ways. Everything out there that's new today an old thing tomorrow, because trends have a shelf life of their own, as such can't sit idled on one invention. Pressure of creation is different at that level. What you ready for the market now is already worked on for its improved version for next installment. You just don't stop working. Trendsetting is about variants and predecessors. 

You can't be a trendsetter and be not creative, and being creative means you have to be alive in thought and spirit. What needs to be known though is that there's a source that's enabling creatives to be how they are in thought and action. We all need to acknowledge that creativity is a spiritual affair. Anything created is a representation of your soul in solidity, a thought alive, a celebration of enability; an attestation that you are one with the source, hence it's important to be humble and grateful about what we've created and put us in lead over and over. 

In conclusion: never question your dream but relive it, doing that shows your respect to the process. Let your dream speak to your receptive intuition, allow it enough freedom it commands, build with thought what it dictates, and a winning concept you'll be left with. What you should interrogate is your finishing until it complements the initial message communicated through your creation by the source.

One more thing to bear in mind is that each creation is Godly and only tainted unGodly by the negative spirit of influence. And again, any creation, whether a winner or not, comes from a sacred place deep within and if not winning needing the sole that'll sync with it, seal its mischecks, and sell it. The power of creation is its connection with its kinds in different ways, and so is the magic that sets one apart from the rest, thus making them trendsetters. How they appeal to wider audience and standardizing the market, a pure affirmation of being one with the source. What just remains is for us to know who our source is...dp

[Grey denomination for the haves and have-nots]

'If you love money, know how to make it' [1] and you'll be careful with your spending. I recall this words whenever I'm about to spend a lot. Making money isn't easy and to those who find it easy be that they struggled first before getting it right, and to maintain their position using the 30/20/50 (trividend) ratio.

In this trying times, opportunity is lesser than misfortune. With this in mind, it's best to always have your eye on the leap of opportunity. The world of today is of worth, populism, greed and insatiable desires, and if you don't have any of those in your personality mix, are in for a long wait for recognition and recommendation. We live in clans more than they did then. We are more lavish than old money did. We simply are more everything in this age. Given that, it's obvious to point out that if one isn't an affiliate then chances are slim of making it, and as such opportunity a precious commodity.

Along with many changes of note today, money is no longer only a physical pretty paper like it used to be, as we are in the era of plastic money and virtual money. The danger of these new money forms is in how it's relatively easy to transfer in that its intangible and that made it easier to hoard. With that shift, we became more obsessed with numbers which saw those in higher bracket be the figures of influence authorized and power harvested.

By so saying, meaning that support, loyalty and trust are bought by those with buying power, opinions are coloured and weighed according to who you are and what you have, justice system serving the mighty and worthy with respect the have-nots only dream of, and chance a space filled with hopefuls for mercy of the connected few; and that bringing to the fore how hard are you willing to work to get their attention? What are you willing to sacrifice to be in their circles? Indeed, cash rules everything around them and making their world go round in smaller circles.

In conclusion: how we spend our money and on what, is the grey denominator above all for the haves and the have-nots. Money is an enabler element that has the capability to destroy after building a sole, corrupt a clean soul through malady, stroke an ego that wouldn't otherwise have under normal circumstances, it gets to people like smell transported into our bodies by oxygen.

How you use it, goes to show how exposed you are, and how it treats you a sign of how in control you are or not. With it you have access to opportunity windows, spotlight living; a taste of life not touching just about anyone. And if you're to love it, let it register in you the possibilities of its impact to your life. But honestly, life with money is soft and full of certainty, just that it ain't easy making it rapidly and keeping it growing while burning it fast...dp

[1] by KgeleLeso

[Family or family-family]

The challenge of bonding with your dream team a raison d'etre. It's unheard of for some whilst unthought of for others, but real for those faced with it. The exercise is riddled with dilemmas, hyped up choices and hidden ramifications, though with beautiful stories to tell if invest a bit of more time in it. And honestly, truth remains still that you have plenty to carve for self a souvenir out of should you at some point wish to surrender.

To many, bonding is about fun all the time, but reality spells it out differently the exact moment you call in for that number number. There are many hurdles to go through so as to declare self a conqueror. In a group you deal with egos, secrets, rivalries, traps, intents, separatist ideologies, etc, that will highlight tidal waves of insecurities, inhumanity and lost self-beings.

Those elements use any opportunity of a gathering as such to breed negativity, inferiority, criminality, and inequality. If you dwell much into their retrograde program are sure to lose purpose of the whole process. The key is to never allow room for regression by any rogue element, instead peddle unification and instill self-confidence, common-love, respect and trust in next; just about anything that will advance collective positivity.

What you are to the team, how you choose to shape it, and what to save of it, very much dependent on what the individuals sell of selves to you and what you expect of them as a result. Getting it right an achievement and pride. Being a leader a re-discovery of self everyday and an experience none encounter same all the time. It humbles and builds you in kind, teaching you more as you upskill others.

In conclusion: the first rule of engagement here is homogeneity. It's about mutual connection in emotion, spirit, psyche and unison, so as to reach parity levels on synergy. You can't have a gathering of soles that doesn't feel as same, behave same, think alike, treat others alike - you need people who will represent you or your brand, and entrust them with carrying out your dream as a union of qualified soles. Your best bet will be to unearth the background of each as you too use yours as an example to weave strong ties that ensures certainty and belonging. Thereafter, it'll be them who'll show to you if they're to you a family or family-family, and but, whatever answer they have at times a matter unsettling...dp

 

[For thy career hero]

I asked her how she does it, and she said: "life balance" with a smile while dishing up for her family at 19:23. Just after 20:10 she leaves the table straight into her study room cum office to close her day. It usually takes her anything from 1 hour to 3 hours before getting into bed. Her day starts at 5:00 and be at the office by 7:00 before everyone arrives. She runs her start-up accountancy firm.

If you call this crazy, and be calling yourself a businessperson, then clearly there must be something you're missing or perhaps be that we fail to spot your genius. Trust me, people in business have no time. It may be disputed i know, but when in your early stages very wrong to be doing things otherwise like early knockoffs and late work pitchings. You need to work hard for your dream and soft life, and those in your corner will be pushed by that in their quest to make it be possible with you.

Making a success of anything that you start an achievement on its own. It doesn't matter what it is, what we clap our hands for is you having accomplished what you intended doing in the first place, so, celebrate each of those small successes as they are your building blocks to your bigger triumphs.

The challenge with today is that there're many ways to making a living than it was in earlier days (not saying it's bad though). Each decade has its own chapter of evolution and mushrooming of new age enterprises and enterprise runners. Business models gets tweaked all the time. One thing that is still stubborn in the reality of this times is hard work, information and long hours put in, unless with this new e-commerce models as the players in them seem to be earning hard and working smart, thus implying less work and hours done.

Pop culture on the other hand came with it carrying ungrounded yet crafted dreams and hopes that one can do it sans breaking their back, and pity simultaneously opening a backdoor to off-markets that became killers of those hyped dreams and endless possibilities sold. It takes money to make money, yes, and again it takes power to realize your dream, and that comes in the form of land ownership, open market entries, access to funding, affordable labour force, etc, as with such not there, are just well wishers.

In conclusion: being a businessperson used to be fancy and respectable but today not. With everyone doing a side hustle it seem like business a walk in the park. Business is used loosely to express income, irrespective of how it comes it's still business. But for those who start entities and scale them gradually, we know it ain't easy and for that, rest assured you're the daily warrior kings and queens we secretly admire, celebrate and aspire to be, for your bravery a quality some of us only wish for. And in a nutshell we say: "Never give up, we salut you."

Lest we forget, in the process of success for business leaders and runners, there're career heroes who make it easier for them to achieve that which they hope for. In so saying, giving them a hats off gesture for the support to our economies, rankings and family prides. They may say you chose the easier way out, but if only they knew how hard you work they won't look at you asame, and but as for us who knows and respect you for the treasure you are, will forever be grateful for your sacrifices and effort poured into their success stories for you're the molds thereof. We appreciate you, salut...dp

[Mated friendship to commerce]

"Never do business with friends and family", the advise you'll receive from a veteran at failed attempts in business. 'The truth about any story of success is the true lies in it' [1]. If you can understand that, you're halfway to making it in your own story of success.

Trouble with advise is that mostly it's double edged. Sometimes one advises you so as to steer you away from their territory and at times be to enable you to advance. This taking me back to the issue of a mentor vs a seasoned business consultant. The core of the argument being the relationship building over time and the unlocking of opportunities in the long run. I know of people who got locked out of opportunities because their mentors felt jealous or have set a buffer for them. That is caused by the competition built over time with them resulting from the friendship made that later turns to frenemy.

That not scraping the goodness of the phenomenon, no, just the downsides I had observed personally. Enough of that, back to the topic. Doing business with friends and family isn't entirely a bad thing to be honest, what harms the thought is the downside only sans exploration of the upside. If your friends and family are the material then where's the danger in it? How many of us failed because of going into business with total strangers?

I believe if the common interest exists in each, you sure are on your way there. Of late I'm thankful for having turned around from the thoughts of those advises given then. The best advise I feel for me still the most relevant to date was to listen to my own intuition for it won't lead me astray, and that there's a reason to its every reaction. I for one, at most like to tell those I engage with that they should never listen to the story of another's success, that they just hear it and move on in stay on their course. Truth is, the content is similar, so, dig deep in creation of your own to share in future.

In conclusion: there's nothing wrong in mating friendship to commerce. What matters the most is the collective intent and sheer respect, love and well wishing among each other. Not every friend or family member will make a business partner, it takes a special kind to make the cut, so be genuine about that to preserve your good relations.

[1] by KgeleLeso

[The re-come up]

The fear of starting over a trap that is a possibility crippling agent. It takes over your thoughts and make the peel of your dream the center of attraction. Any person who focus on that process ends up seeing only the hardships and not the fruits of their labour afterwards. What you need to look at is the attention your dream needs in order for it to be realized in your process of re-come up.

The secret of success is in knowing what goes into the idea and how it works before thinking of any other thing. Just the understanding of that, will make you be appreciative of the time it takes to conceptualize a dream in its pack formation. You'll see how important your attitude is to your end result. Should you walk that road inside of your dream, will you then be attentive to what your needs are as opposed to your wants for that fear kick out for your dream to succeed.

The negativity that surrounds you during the period of re-establishing oneself a momentum halt. There'll be those days of serious grinding and you should know in advance and prep self for. What you have on your side as an advantage is the fact that you are doing it again and having insights into the process unlike one who never had been there before. See it for a plus it is for you and you'll never allow the weak fear touch your path.

In conclusion: be lied never to about talks of how easy it is if you love it; they are not being truthful and shouldn't listen to such. The reality is, it all the time seem easy in thought but hard in practice. Any idea when turned into business reacts and should know that henceforth so it not frighten and discourage you. Do yourself a favour and at most deal with your mental and emotional strength before anything else. A lot of stuff you'll be dealing with will be poking at those, so are those damaging talks of how easy it is "if you love it first before it be a business" as such are some of the elements of the architecture for you to set yourself up for failure like it did others.

When you start over, you are lucky as you won't be all over the place, you go direct to what you want and do a retake on it. The benefit of it is that. You so much know what you tripped over and won't step on it asame. If you have tried and failed, I say go back home on it and haul it out and, believe you me the result won't be how they designed it to be for you, for this time it's you that you listen to more than you do others outside. Good luck, it's yours to work in for us to work it out, for it's your dream. The re-come up...dp

[Wounds of poverty]

'Poverty a stitch to the mind of a poor sole' [1]. The curse 'pon the have nots a charred sacrificial lamb that only those who walked that tight rope can give them that analgesic effect to their daily pain, 'cause who knows it feels it. Being below the soles of the hotsteppers a constant suffering. But then, it's in how limited they are to sighting endless opportunities below those soles that makes some remain there for the rest of their lives.

Hearing them say being broke is a choice, I second that, but being poor not a matter of choice all the time. And, judge not the one blaming their background as a shell they wish away when hit by life's An Nefuds. At times hear one hating their fate for having brought them into the lives of the people they now call family, failing them to see that circumstances can always be turned around.

The first danger to the poor is the risk that resides in their decision chamber. It processes thoughts that are too quick for qualitative outcome and justified by errors shifted to many scapegoats there are to visit the mind in that moment of justification. Judge them not, those are results of poor education that shaped such poor school of thought.

'Being broke is a setback, and being poor a status' [2]. The sooner one understands that the better they'll deal with their dual ring-fencings. Both a challenge and a problem are difficulty situations that requires an answer as a solution, through that is how you'll see why we're separated by our statuses; our schools of thought. The position we find selves in a result of just that, the quality of one's thoughts and choice of decision making, primed by the timing of it all.

In conclusion: business community must stop treating the poor the way they do as that invites retaliation in return, they too deserve the courtesy afforded the other classes for them to be aspirant. Treat them with kindness and dignity, and the protection they'll give you worth your value multiple times. The key here is to respond to the status of the individual after treating them first as a person...dp

[1, 2] by KgeleLeso

[The masterplan]

When building, it's easy to do mistakes, and how you choose to rectify those mistakes a key that writes out in caps who builds. That, is what will say everything to the eyes watching and to the ears hearing from the eyes what's been said and how, about you. So, it's important what you choose for the world to perceive you by.

The picture of the full structure is a map of architecture that only the master planner can correct on or allow you to add on. The danger of building can be that there's no voice of mistake callout, and if that occurs must say it's either that the building TEAM is understanding the architecture, or be it that the master planner is not choosing to say anything out, or that you're expected to point out your own wrongs to correct. If it be the case, why do that? And what kind of master planner is that? What would you do if you discovered that about them? How would you think afterwards, moving on?

The problem with the architectural map is that there's always a result adjustment that you might not be aware of should you not be understanding of the options of the master planner. To be building with the other needs you to be a builder yourself of something else too in either the currency or prior, and or in process of building for self within. If you're not there as yet, chances are you too will make a mistake of not being in the mind and heart of the master planner.

Then now, if you are ever expecting of the callout for a mistake, what makes you out to be? If you are not understanding of the silence from the master planner, what does it say to you? Thing is, it may be the result of the master planner's believe in you, or be their appreciation of what you do with them, or be that you are not easy to understand the mistake. If it be so, being that the mistakes done are only for their ability to rectify, or for their eyes only to see, or maybe there aren't any at all. But then, what to make of the master planner who is fearing to call out or correct on the mistakes done? Thing is, the pain a master planner feels whenever the collective union of energies fail to churn out the desired result, cutting thicker into the deeps of their belief in the individuals they rely on their paired synergies. 

In conclusion: it's always been about the master planner, but then, what about you for a change? What if the architecture of the master plan is based around you? Why not put yourself in the plan and see the benefit of the master planner's win in having you in the TEAM? Is it because you don't have your value in mind, or not sizing your worth in the dream of the master planner, or not having the reason for you being there, or simply that you feel you're easily replaceable? If you're expected to be doing less now, don't you think you'll be expected to be doing more next time?

The secret to being part of anyone's anything lies within you. The lock of thy potential innate in nobody's hands but yours, so it's in how you choose to sell self to yourself first that makes the key difference of you with self to stay locked or be unlocked. How you see the risk of another's master plan reflecting very much not what they self don't see in it but rather what they read in you to it. And but, what if the very risk you see isn't it by them but instead in you being there for it either as part of the building TEAM or a role player in the dream? If you're to get anything out of any plan, the best you can do is just ask, and you'll find those every reasons to every move there is in the build up. The master plan...dp

[Find a crack to slot in]

Picking a person to be close to you a very tough time to field your thoughts in. The challenge is mostly not with you but with a host of your options available. One may not see that until they get to decide themselves in future to appreciate the care and diligence needed to budget for this exercise.

The other thing is to be clear in mind what you want out of the person who'll be in that position. It doesn't matter what role it is, they just have to meet certain standards for them to be there.

Once you gain real access into them, and they get to know what you want of them, to prep them for what's to come. It'll either be that you share a bit of self by bits or in the case of one who's been near you to dip right in and let them in on your inner workings of your person as a whole. The benefit of going for that near to you person being that you had self been with them and learning in parts who they are, and going in fully a lesser risk than with a total stranger. A familiar stranger a safe bet always.

It's important for the chosen to understand why them and where you position them so it becomes the regulator of your relationship. It must also be set out whatever that'll work against the arrangement of your relationship from the onset.

What kills the vibe of many an arrangement is space apart. At most the vacuum created communicates a certain point of where you are with the person, however the reasons. The many patterns in that setup gets used to and adapted to, and should there develop new ones, hard to be sure to view as trend or pattern. The challenge is what to do if there's a knock by someone availing self as a lead replacement. Before their quality the issue to tackle will be the intent, followed by their timing. Establish the crack they want to slot their self in, and you'll be in a better position to decide better what to do about the vacuum.

Ever been in a year gap with someone only to reunite and fill the void as if was yesterday? A bond can do that. Space apart a test by either of you testing your importance, or circumstances testing your impact on the other, or a plan by someone to open a crack for themselves. But whatever it is, a move too risky if you lapped your to come over.

In conclusion: given the regulation of your relationship, gender becomes a factor. How you relate to the same as you gender isn't as with the opposite, so then, what to do of your closeness? The principle is to say in honesty the state you find yourself in with them in the arrangement. Truth is, finding that crack to slot in doesn't apply to them alone but with you as well. The trick here is finding a mode to enable detachment after reaction or a build up of attachment if responded to.

Pity misfortune may be either party's failure to recognize importance of constructive criticism of the other's crept into the grey zone, thus resulting in a stay away. But if stick to your slot in the crack, the message will be loud and clear for that's how you show your intent in the arrangement. Find a crack to slot in...dp

 

[A proven bleached carbon copy]

With Illuminati a proven bleached carbon copy, it's now about tracking the authentic blueprint. The elite are mysteriously running on their code, but the question is what it is and who has it, and whom are they sharing it with?

Many wrote theories we read and endless conspiracies we've been fed, and but still nothing is as tangible as truth about your own background. It's true that: "those with knowledge are the ones who lie the most" [1]. The oratory around the Illuminati is nothing but just a detour to the true code. But then, there's a lot of information hidden behind the fronting of those many baseless allegations and accusations on affiliates making rounds from time to time with countless decoys.

What I can say is that, same as with the street code or prison code or charismatic church code, each industry has its own code and the only way to getting it being through the insiders, just that it's a fatal move should you break it. Illuminati is the rehearsal of the real thing I heard. There are things that are happening in the business world that only a key few figures are in control of. The very key few individuals are making it hard for any other so wanting to be in, in that they have to get in via them and their controlled entry. It's hard as you have to undergo a series of protocols in order to find self in.

To put it mildly but in literal terms, is to plainly say that it's really difficult to lay your hands on the authentic blueprint of the code, because should you be lucky by getting close to them a positive outcome as you'll have a rewarding chance with your career or life path. The blueprint of that code is safely guarded by those who control the innings and outings of those chosen few.

What's worrying though, is what the criterion is of selecting those who meets the minimum requirements and how they find and introduce them to the code. Truth is, should you break through into that circle, are sure to be on the way out of your small time life into mega side of things. Pity those in possession and well versed in that code aren't ready to air what the scroll says and are also prepared to raise the shield in protection of the code.

In conclusion: it's said that the very code is from way back and in favour of the oddo and the flim. The question is, what does it take to be an oddo and or a flim? All I learned is that anyone who knows the keywords, numerology and phrases like; "chorus of life", "2.5  23.1.18.14.5.4  14.15.20  20.15  2.5  1.14  5.14.5.13.25 1.20  20.8.5  13.5.5.20.9.14.7  3.18.15.19.19  16.1.20.8.19¶  1.12.11.5.2.21.12.1.14  15.21.18  14.1.20.9.22.5  8.15.13.5¶", and "syncrita", surely is with them or in possession of the code scroll...dp

[1] by KgeleLeso

 

[Moving on]

If the feeling is still lingering, you're captured; know that you're not ready to move on. If dreams are faded, you've lost your vision; then know you're ready to move on. When you are in any relationship of bind, it's important to keep tabs on your feelings all the time as your compass of where you're placed or heading. And however it feels, there ought to be a clear plan and strategy of both your exit and stay in.

Though it happens in any relationship, the sad part of it is that when it ends you get to decide on whether to fight for it or simply accept and move on. Moving on is a step away from what you shared yet left in share of memories created. It doesn't matter how you choose to deal with it, but naturally an option that tears you apart as a result.

The phase of moving on requires one to be emotionally ready, mentally stable, intellectually prepared, and financially sound for that draining challenge. You need to be sufficient enough to support  oneself before asking for anyone's assistance. It pains should it be that the other party behave in a way that is in retaliation. Moving on is easier when you have a level-headed ex-partner who is drama averse, to avoid hurting others in the process as history has shown with many a separation proceeding, especially where the gender mix is a factor.

Though a lot fail to be civil in its midst, it but won't be the case if had a laid out exit plan for such an eventuality from the beginning. Letting your union be governed by paper should be mandatory. It helps to have a reduced to paper agreement signed to guide the process of separation, succession, or growth. In the end, a commercial relationship is bound by paper and dissolved asame by paper, hence moving on not a decision you take lightly; and if opt for moving on, a course one sails solo.

In conclusion: be sure of your reasons and know of your opportunity for options on your menu, before you apply your thought on whether to stay or go. Know what to make of parting shots your way by those you leave behind should you opt to move on, or what to make of appeals your way for furtherance of that which you started. Underline every punchline of their thoughts about your decision to gauge the rightness or wrongness thereof. Let them be the casters of the stones first and you the picker of the safe bet for you...dp

[Creative logic]

Ever thought why you aren't successful? Is success that important to you? Everyone deserves a shine under the sun at some point in their lives, including you. Shine comes after a good grinding and some form of support.

The challenge of today is the pandemic, a killer of opportunity, success and plans, yet on the other side the presenter of same. Difference here is the industry you're in or wanting to venture into. The thinking is now of being creating a balancing act between loss of opportunity and gain of opportunity. How you suffice for the losses realized a gear change left only for your creative thinking in that the game of business today rested in that side. Thinkers are the survivors and winners of this crucial times.

I once read a piece about the importance of creatives in the economic landscape, something a lot of you don't see. The piece also touched on the issue of failure by both the business community and the public sector to recognize that missed opportunity of creativity to grow our economy. This going to show now how we so need that creativity in how some still think, act and attend to the needs of the situation of today. He said this during a profile after exiting Nigerian market due to failure. He listened to only legal and financial heads, leaving behind creatives only to realize very late how he needed them before even entering the market.

The old businessman also uttered something significant, the issue of ZAR in failing to be sellable. Said the undermining of creative industries practitioners is one of the reasons South Africa will keep stepping back while others are stepping forth like Nigeria. It's a common practice for creatives to use psychology before anything when dealing with problems and opportunities, and that's exactly what our economy lacks, creative thinkers for creative solutions that'll peddle us to the right direction.

In conclusion: truth be shared and known that in order for any country's citizens to achieve success, its fiscal policy should be enabling them to be. It's not foreign to us, we need a logical thinking government. Another thing is the role of each sector in that economy to be viewed and treated as equally important as the rest. Picking and choosing other sectors over others a first step towards failure.

So, even if you can push with your dream and aspirations, failure by your government to level the playing fields will leave you with no success. Success of any economy lies in its own successes first. It's time our leaders stop being garrulous and do what's right for our economy to thrive...dp

[50 points into a person]

The gains into another a similar result as loss out of another. When you are with another person you need to constantly be working out what they mean to you, what they contribute to your growth, how you can get rid of them, and why you shouldn't be with them again.

Your formula of life is unlike any other's and your being is perfectly unlike any other's, so, know your self in order to find balance of your life. Now, 50 points into a person. It should be known though that to some it is 40 points or 30 points into a person, given where they are in life. The points are of 10 into each category of the person scored, with 5 of negative and 5 of positive. The 5 categories are in spouse, akin member, friend, business partner/colleague, and support member. To those not married or not in a romantic relationship, they gauge others in 4 categories, while for those not working and/or unmarried to focus in 3 categories.

It works in this way; when you are with another person, what are the 5 things that you find positive about them for you and which 5 things are to you negative about them? If the scale remains at 5/5 it's good for there's a balance, but if there's more in one side than in the other, then an imbalancement. An imbalancement can be good if it is found in more positives. A bad imbalancement is if it's more negatives. Weigh the negatives and see if there's a chance of them being able to be turned around and if not quit and move on. The same applies in all categories except with family as you can only distance yourself.

You should be doing one thing wherever you want to build something with anyone and that's constantly selling your dream, and whomever not matching up, to be cast aside. Our failure to exercise grey denomination formula has seen us left with many scars. But, you should also be receptive of their dreams and growth wishes. The elements of a healthy relationship are listening with understanding and giving back same energy, comfort of secrecy vaulting, and well wishing upon each other.

In conclusion: initially I was taught about only 4 categories and after looking into it I found it still wanting the support member category as it applies in my and others' lives. We have professionals that we built relationships with and we are to date with because we found balance in them, irrespective of the relationship being service driven and monetary based. The good thing about any relationship is knowing what you gain out of spending time in it, and what you gave in return. 50 points into a person then comes back to what you too fare in terms of score in them. Check your roles also in the lives of those you take space in as it's important for you to know...dp

[Respect not fear]

Funny you're reading this today, sad you're not going to agree entirely with it. It will but visit your growth at some point in your life. When you are in adoration of another you either like or love them for who they are or for what they are and how they are. It doesn't matter their geographical position, right?,,,Thanks.

You go into business with someone for various reasons and are by right correct to you in that you can justify them. You at times go in out of pressure or fear or out of pure potential you spotted. In some cases be that you be the majority holder and as such be the leader in the set-up or in some cases be that you're the minority holder and find self being led. In either case, as a leader or as a seconder, there are control and power issues involved all the time, and how do you navigate through those?

I know to some it's not a subject that is comfortable, but needs to be out in the open. Truth is, with power, comes fear or respect into play. But then, if you find yourself in the position of power, what do you expect in return from your seconder and those below? Fear or respect? Then if circumstances are flipped, will you respect or fear the one in power?

The challenge with positions of influence or power, if you know how they differ, is the degree of ego that runs immediately to the mental bank to claim glory of the boss title drawn from the safety deposit box before being given consent thereto and the key thereof. As that type, you end up with entitlement and morphed up ego. The danger with that is none respects such type but rather hate them because of the fear they instill in others. Respect is not forced, for it's a natural process that is awarded to one who cares, respects others, self and things, loves passionately what they do, leads and follows up attentively with humility and impartiality.

In conclusion: respect generally goes to a leader in charge not a leader in command. Reason for that being the material fact of respect vs fear. Through that you find the true variance of like and love, as you may be liked or like someone yet be fearing them, and but love or be loved by someone out of their sheer respect for you or your respect for them. Though it is truly up to you, but we treat the next on the approach they had on us and or based on how they treat others next to us, and from that that's where we conclude on whether it's respect or fear that we advance to you as a leader...dp 

[Failing your dream]

A friend of mine once said to me that dreams are expensive, but I say dreams are expensive only if you're not ready for them. Sometimes we are the cost to our dreams, so ready yourself first.

When you were growing up you wanted to be something that you later on in life renegade. Reasons for that dream short-lived or worse, be given up, remains as something only you will know to say. But whatever it is, dreams are the ones that lost. Saying this reminds me of Elizabeth Gilbert in her book "Big Magic" when she talks about the relationship between humans and ideas. It's the same phenomena as with a dream.

How do you follow your dream? Where does the heart comes in? How do you treat that dream? Thing is, a dream is a being of its own that stays where it's welcome and is being used and, if not used will punish you. One thing I love about a dream though, is that, unlike with an idea a dream hangs around far longer and but hurtfully reminding you of it through others who achieved what you long for.

And, just like with death or future, a dream is a secret unto us that but is a revelation of sort. In whatever that you want to be or do, if you don't dream it, chances are it's easy to slip through your heart as it's only in the head and as such struggling to be accommodated by your passion as it never touched it's vicinity before.

In conclusion: don't be lost to your dream, rather be lost in your breakthrough. Life of a businessperson doesn't favour lost prospects of a dream. Start today, be that rebel for your dream, that's how success will be attracted to you.

Failing your dream is a bond breaker between you and the higher being that gave you your gifts when you arrived at birth, with your hands clenched in hold of promise to your hope, dream and purpose. Come on, don't disappoint, re-steer your compass back to your true North and shift will come your way; that's then you'll be found again and be restored to thy initial promise you owe unto your life.

'Like a stranger in the jungle, search for what's familiar to you in her foreign given paths, that's how success will lead you to its destination of your dream to fulfill' [1]...dp

[1] by KgeleLeso

[Takes best to make best]

In business, it takes only two sides to it for you to get it right. It's always about the corporate and the operations. The start in 75% of startups is with the operational side then go for corporate perfunctorily, starting with compliance first in part with registration, tax clearance, BBBEE affidavit (in SA) and a business account, then be it. That leaves still a lot out like streamlining, modelling, discussion documents and proforma templates.

A lot of activity is in the operations, and the danger part of it is that many business operators don't want to master that either. I've witnessed that many a times people going into business be focused solely on what they want to do or know sans looking into the other side. Going in we mostly are seduced by the glamour side and forget about the unglamorous side to it, and its importance.

A friend of mine recently asked me about where to start in wanting to be rounded in business, and I had no straight answer for him because it starts innate. What do you love first? Start there,,,I ended up saying to him. Told him about my case, as I too started with what I loved and later realized how we struggle with paperwork. It wasn't easy finding a partner for that, so, I learned the boring side of our business and since then never looked back as it's rewarding.

Going into business you need to be best in order to attract the best, be it in investment or partners or staff and consumers. If you don't work at being the best yourself, how will you find the best? The quality you are is the quality you be seen out as. You just need to be very good at what you do and you'll be known as good. The open secret in business is that it starts with talk reduced to paper and ends with talk reduced to paper, unless there having had not any paper trail to it.

In conclusion: the corporate side is the less glamour side to the glamorous operations. Almost three quarters of people I met in business are in operations and a few in compliance, and but the balance of that is needed in each business, just that we ignore that or be honestly unknowing. Every business needs to function with both in place.

I know, saying that may get me in trouble with many business consultants and advisors, but truth be shared and be left for one to choose. But trust me, you need a compliance somebody on daily basis in your operations to avoid many risks and unnecessary losses tied to running daily. Get yourself the best corporate partner and unlock potential for your growth...dp

[Information an opportunity]

Finish your schooling then go do what you want, our parents said. The same was said by our educators. What I got out of being out of class was simple; there are two types of schooling, the formal education and the informal education. None in the classroom told us about that revelation, only the regulations they fed us with so we be in line with the set program, and that's learn to pass so you may be qualified to earn as an employee. They never prepared us for any other thing out there as an option to their school of thought.

I remember after high school, two days after matriculation results were out, friends busy with their luggage heading to various tertiary institutions for space. A week later I was left alone, what I qualified for and loved to study, my parent couldn't afford. That moment was my most painful experience ever, 'cause that's when I got the harshest reality of all by then that high school shielded me from realizing how poor we were. None of those friends kept on being my friends, I was now below them. I wished I were born into their families not into mine where they can't afford my dream like my friends' families did. But soon someone special said to me: "be open to the opportunities that the class failed you on. Find a way to one day have those with higher education come use it on you. It's your choice to craft your vision or crush your dream." I heard him and I shadowed him in hone of my growth.

The lessons I learned out of the physical classroom are far dwarfed by what I now know. The classroom taught me how to read, write and talk and at home was my name and surname, gave me character, and sense of being. Now out, I learned about the power of thought, decision and choice, art of timing and shift, respect out of politeness, communicating me in plugging of what I do before what I am, significance of character development, the difference between authority, influence and power, and most vital was the value of opportunity in information. Since then, I never loved the sole I was prior.

Information is key, no matter what you do in any sphere of life. Just by knowing you have the means to make those who know to make you know sans them knowing you don't know. With information you play the game of gauge, something only the daring do for its challenging and dangerous. I know value now more than a lot I seat down with, and how to get what I want because informal schooling has given that to me. I now give easily in allow of the recipient the chance to outplay their true selves.

The transformation of me was in prepping of me to be a future executive. I was told of my path in detail what with the information I was equipped with I am going to be, not should be as that remained in my region to exercise my choice in it. I am weak physically but strong in information, something that took time to get right with me. I was told in teachings how special it is to be an executive. Today I cherish my respectfulness, what it has done for me, and the character and sense of being my family instilled in me. I'm not yet where I command respect but am content with my readiness for many answers with the level of depth I now have in me, and that's only because of the opportunity I saw and found in information.

In conclusion: those with information aspire. Their boldness in knowing their swelled value in being grounded a rare talent only the skillful are eyeing with envy. Knowing what to do with your information a dream for the connected yet clueless.

Knowledge attracts opportunities unafforded to others. The challenge with information is management of its spread in that some of the content you're informed about is classified, wherefore to remain as such. One hobnob once said too much information corrupts, especially if it doesn't escape through the air bricks but via the chimney. It is privileged and so should know how you share it. Information is an opportunity that's dependent on the recipient...dp

[You in prime]

Everyday we grow, and everyday we lose a day. How we spend our days should be in line with our plans. Time is crucial, health is vital, life is essential, and you are important. What you do with YOU is very striking as it's a definer of what's to be said come the time you're no more.

Everyone is in some sort of their prime, we just need to figure it out where we actually are. By just having YOU, you have a start of great things to accomplish. I know my knock is off your mark but if you're with yourself you'll get what I mean.

We have early starters who hit the ceilings quick, or fall off the pedestal too quick, and have those who sustain their lead. On the other side have late starters who too experience same tragedies of the early starters, or be better but reach their career end earlier due to their time in. It's all in priming.

What I love about starting your own business is that you forget about ceilings and career ends, you focus on priming. You being late in or early in doesn't say a thing, but what matters will be how primed you are, or in what prime you are, or that you do overstand your prime or not, of which will show through what gets read in you through your presentation of your YOU. What YOU is to you matters a lot, that's why you need to know what you want out of your YOU before others get it. Play the game innate and plan it outward; then you'll feel in know the power of your prime.

With you, you carry hopes, dreams, capabilities, and a promise to deliver. What you embody gives away your value proposition. When we engage with you it's always that which we encounter that informs our conclusion of where you are in your prime. What you lose everyday can be made up for if you're willing to dig twice as hard to cover base of thy loss through depth in your retake.

In conclusion: it isn't about hiding behind shadows of others, but simply a matter of what YOU is all about to you the embodier before us the external parties. If you are about wealth creation, it'll show through your projection of YOU; how you interact with other wealth creators and those around you. Life of a businessperson is impacted by many factors external to it yet in connection be not that external in how they apply their YOU element in the process. You have to be you, but in reality the true YOU doesn't win favours mostly and only left with building the YOU whom you'll win others with as it's all about external elements' impression and their perceptions of the projection of you externally that really matters. But, be sure to build the YOU which will not be compromising self, and also be matching your prime...dp