[Moving on]

If the feeling is still lingering, you're captured; know that you're not ready to move on. If dreams are faded, you've lost your vision; then know you're ready to move on. When you are in any relationship of bind, it's important to keep tabs on your feelings all the time as your compass of where you're placed or heading. And however it feels, there ought to be a clear plan and strategy of both your exit and stay in.

Though it happens in any relationship, the sad part of it is that when it ends you get to decide on whether to fight for it or simply accept and move on. Moving on is a step away from what you shared yet left in share of memories created. It doesn't matter how you choose to deal with it, but naturally an option that tears you apart as a result.

The phase of moving on requires one to be emotionally ready, mentally stable, intellectually prepared, and financially sound for that draining challenge. You need to be sufficient enough to support  oneself before asking for anyone's assistance. It pains should it be that the other party behave in a way that is in retaliation. Moving on is easier when you have a level-headed ex-partner who is drama averse, to avoid hurting others in the process as history has shown with many a separation proceeding, especially where the gender mix is a factor.

Though a lot fail to be civil in its midst, it but won't be the case if had a laid out exit plan for such an eventuality from the beginning. Letting your union be governed by paper should be mandatory. It helps to have a reduced to paper agreement signed to guide the process of separation, succession, or growth. In the end, a commercial relationship is bound by paper and dissolved asame by paper, hence moving on not a decision you take lightly; and if opt for moving on, a course one sails solo.

In conclusion: be sure of your reasons and know of your opportunity for options on your menu, before you apply your thought on whether to stay or go. Know what to make of parting shots your way by those you leave behind should you opt to move on, or what to make of appeals your way for furtherance of that which you started. Underline every punchline of their thoughts about your decision to gauge the rightness or wrongness thereof. Let them be the casters of the stones first and you the picker of the safe bet for you...dp