[Reality is bold and actual]

There's nothing as real about reality than it's realness. When you touch yourself and things, what you feel is tangible and then be those intangible stuffs that you feel and sense yet can't touch. The world of business and career is leaned on both, and same goes for life.

Now, to you: what's your harshest reality? To some of you, reality comes from that view in your mirror, some from every wake, some from looking at peers, but the realness of whatever you see and feel only a result of your comparison and self-judgment. Sometimes it's good to judge yourself before any person does. To others it's a negative thing to your esteem but still done unto you by others, so why not just do it to self then? Unfortunately, the reality you run away from of criticizing self will be met with harsh statements by others to you about you at times, and that's more hurtful than it is unto self.

People live by different standards; some by their own, some by their parents, some by society, others by social class, and however you see it everyone fits in somewhere. So, when you lead, who's standard are you conforming to? Which side are you finding comfort in during your deepest challenges? Gender does also come into play when confronted with tough situational dealings. How one fares pretty much reliant on the behavior and shaped by the gender and standards.

Reality uncovers a lot of clothed flaws. It is only the fabric of that cover that will be the center of attention when the subject is brought to light. It doesn't matter what is underneath, it will definitely meet its reality when time comes, be it its try out, or implementation or conceptualizing process. Those standards will be your own critic before anyone else utters any word about that.

One of the toughest parts to master and conquer is mating of thought and reality. Truth is, you may dream anyhow you may but what rules is the reality to your pursuit of wanting to make it live.

In conclusion: reality is bold and actual, and anything in between hanging on fact or fiction...dp