Ever been in a space where you are told that you are not the person you claim to be? Ask me, I know that and its feeling, and frankly it happens to some achievers not so like me. As for me, it’s a case of having to show proof first and but still be doubted.
I want to say something that I know a lot will never beg to differ with me but rather argue the view I have on the subject matter. What I would like to point out though might seem to be out of topic which is the fact that I being a Gemini has a lot to do with my thinking differed from an average somebody. Those born under this zodiac sign possess high levels of creative thinking, writing and speaking. The Geminis’ are natural communicators.
Back to the topic at hand; it’s baffling to be told that you are not who you are. The issue is many a times people fail to separate the who you are from the what you are. For argument sake, one may be an inventor of something phenomenal as a qualified developer or technician, that’s the what part of their being that is done via their academic capabilities, and then next be that ordinary chap you meet on the queue at the supermarket. When somebody asks them whether they know the inventor of that product and be telling them they do know the person and that they have in fact met that person it be a case that they don't believe it. Worse will be when they blurt it out that they're the person behind the name. The trouble starts when you are mated to the what you are as the person may at most be surprised at that in that you don’t fit the good that you do as what you are versus as who you are.
A lot of people tend to build personas of us in their minds only to be disturbed by the truth that comes as a shock to them once introduced to the real person. Thing is, the persona always is a bigger and better thought of being and not the simple person presented to them.
It’s laughable the things we see in people’s reactions to knowing us at times. How they behave a killer all the time. One’s body frame, ethnicity, upbringing story, together with other man’s defining features do not conclude a thing about a person, and best we just remain open minded about people as they are sans building personas in our heads. Once that gets out of the way people will learn to respect and appreciate one another beyond any negativity attached, and start to judge people and their things on merit.
In conclusion: any person whether on high, mid or low profile ought to be seen as a person like you. What may differentiate us may be our levels of achievements but that doesn’t say we are deities. See my humanness raw as I am same as you and you’ll be able to engage with me, them and others who achieved better than you. Give me the very eye you did before put in the know of my profile asame after that. Chances are that I might be better an achiever to you but be of lesser to another, and to me there're those whom I do give my respect and appreciation for what they have achieved sans comparing myself to them. Do same, compare never yourself with others but benchmark through them, and if it happens to be me you're benchmarking with, don't treat me as if I'm too real to be me should we ever get to engage. Treat me like the human I am and I'll too act same in return treating you as human, for it's a career that happens to be putting me in the spotlight and nothing more to it...dp
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