We all live with them yet hard to achieve, and if gets broken, a shutter of peace, happiness, confidence, and hope. Dreams are ever big, but needs us to be realistic about what they want for them to be achievable. If we don't then are of no use to us.
Everybody has theirs, and not everyone is living theirs, and most hanging on to them in escape from reality. Broken dreams results in hope deferred; a sorry state that a lot of us are residing in. Saying that means one has given up on their dreams. Question is: how come do we fail? Is it that we failed our dreams or be that we failed in our dreams?
I believe that we at times fail to realize our dreams because we don't support them. Also, we fail to achieve our dreams because we don't align them with our purpose. If we can be able to deflate our dreams maybe we will see where we went wrong. How many of us live our wishes? Thing is, if you don't live your aspired life, you kick your chances away. If you dream of being a pharmacist, hang around pharmacists and places where they are related to pharmacy. Being close to your dream is important, even if not allow you to live it, can still be close to it and that a push of your passion. That also helps in knowing your entry points into your dream.
There's a thrill in chase but that shouldn't make part of your aspirational mix. What you want to be should be easy to spot by those close to you. Sometimes they help us in reaching them if time still allows. To be honest, dreams in many cases are age based and should we fail to accomplish them within a specific time then it's over with them, and once one reach that stage find self with no point of going forth. To avoid such feelings, don't have dreams that are rigid, flexify them.
Truth is, it remains our onus to be working on our dreams and ourselves so we be good for our aspirations. It is pointless to work on the other sans working on the other. Being good for our dreams and aspirations makes us ready for the opportunity that they seek for our success. So, if be ready only on one side and the opportunity presents itself and find that you still lack on the other side, it be that it's a pass. Know what your dream and aspiration entail and work hard at ensuring you meet their requirements of your making of them. Some dreams requires you to go to school for their realization, some have to undergo training for them, some have to be the material so you qualify them, some needing just your capital alone to make them happen, but whatever they're, seeking one to meet the requirements.
Some dreams can be put on hold and be revisited later on while in the case of others once put on hold never to be achieved due to dynamics roled in them. As such, never have one dream, give it an alternative. For example, have an early age dream and an after that dream. Some dreams are not dreamed before a certain age while some have been from an early age. We just but need to have dreams that drives our will to wake up and go out.
In conclusion: success at something not a fulfillment if not of your dream and aspiration, for you keep going back to it, and the danger about it is its impact on your unfound happiness. Be where your passion lies and your potential will shine. And, how does it feel in your dream? Will achieving it make you attain full happiness that is true or real? True happiness is within (responsive) and real happiness is on the outside (reactive), but all brought by achievement and success. The difference is in how we feel and respond or react to the result.
But then again, at times recapping our dreams a soul killing factor in that if you failed to evolve so is your dream, and nothing stays still, hence the call to flexify. Pushing for your dream for a long time tires the soul and should cons spot that will put you to your early retirement as they'll use it against you. Recapped dreams a vulnerability that seek your personal security else an early grave potential case. When you recap your dream, go back in on another level above the initial one and resurrect your initio via a younger version of your then. That may be your sure recaptured glory you longed for. The defining factor is achievement, and on age and how,,,so irrelevant...dp
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