[Worthy to value your year]

If emotions were to kick feelings out, will there still be a point to acknowledge pain or happiness? I don't know what to make of that question, but I just treated it as a statement. For me, it all whisper a brittle sentiment in soft whistles. But then, the year has reached its fold and in ushers the new one.

Anew, it gives 365 days or a day extra if a leap year, and what everyone ought to ask self is what have they done with all those days passed in the current year prior to stepping into the new one. We all have resolutions, we swear to do this or that, we ask for things in our lives, we make promises, and all these are tied to the 12 months we have, pity it almost every year repeat itself that we fail to keep to them. For me, after having had many failures to my resolutions, swears, promises, and requests, told myself to from that year work on intra-month plan than I used to over a year.

I don't work on what I have to achieve, no, I work with what is ready to advance my course. Since I did so, my life has less self-blames from disappointments of not achieving targets. I simply look at what I want to do and formulate its strategy and follow its response to my attempts at success on it. I've learnt to cease being hard on myself. Practicing self-protection for avoidance of being harsh at self has helped grow my perspective on viewing a year, opportunity, surrender, worth and value, and saw loss as a lesson and a fail as a chance for a better start after a false one. I'm now gentle to myself.

Naturally, we measure our timeline of life in years, but what if we look at it on what you succeeded in rather? Instead of saying I turned 30 this be that in 2021I managed to be successful in achieving this and that. Day by day, putting year to our age is busy getting eroded. And, that if be done, will give you your worth in a particular year and your value will keep growing per your success. Let's redefine the way we count our years.

In conclusion: it's hard to stick to yearly resolutions, promises, requests, swears, and the likes, but easier to stick to your dream. What you need is just fuel that with build-up successes to your end goal. Then, what if you achieve all your goals before tear end? We never anticipate that because we already see it as undoable.  What's important is your review of self-worth to the end goal and the value you put in self to advanced opportunities, for it's sad to be extending resolutions year after year. Work on the progression you want with the material you are, hence it's vital to keep working at self-growth. Your time in a year matters, and even more is what you mean to your each day given in it, make it worth the value you are in it... dp