[Everybody has money to spend]

It's a question of how much and how often, but everybody does experience that feeling whether young or old. Not everyone has money all the time but we all have some to spend all the time because everybody has money sometimes. It doesn't matter on what, we spend. Having money to spend not necessarily meaning that you're moneyed, rather affording.

Spending one's money has always had with it many issues in it that have nothing to do with how you made it, whom with, when will it be again, and other important information about that very money. People want you to use your money the way they do or want to but failed, and if you do it as it pleases you be that you're wasteful or extravagant. If I'm living beyond my means isn't it my problem to deal with than it does you? When it comes to money, none should be saying this and that are overspending while they too may be overspending according to others.

What you're having may be enough by your standard and too much by another's, but be nothing by someone's standard, as such should approach spending likewise. A poor man's want may turn out to be an average man's need, whom his luxury want be a basic want to a rich man, so is life. You may be saving and spending less, and have another not saving but spending on assets, whom is better? We need to factor in many circumstances and reasons behind each person's behaviour before concluding on their anything. Issues of commercial interest aren't easy to judge on.

In conclusion: if you have money now, fact is you didn't have it yesterday and reality is that your yesterday is someone else's today, and should remember that we all don't know what tomorrow holds for us. Truth about money is that you may save enough for emergencies and have nothing for future. When you spend, even if it be rough to the pit or enough for your kick start, know what you spend for instead of what you spend on. And also, know that you can't spend money on things that have returns all the time, have acceptance that you'll lose some of it on heart's delights and desires. But, the bottom line is that everybody has money to spend, it just depends on what they choose to...dp

[What's being weak?]

A lot of times many people tell me that I'm weak that it so often gets to me what being weak really is. When I call you by your last name or greeting you with my head slightly bowed and hands together is my way of showing respect to you; making me ask myself if it's a sign of that weakness. Is it a weakness when you ask for my help and I come running to your aid leaving my everything for you? Or is it when I put my all on you with the hope and wish to see you doing good for yourself more than it is for me? Or is it my display of my soft spot for you that entitles you to think lesser of me?

So heart breaking hiding behind my cracked smile and faked laughs shying away from the fact of your trampling on my gentle heart, praising my humbleness to any who dares to listen without shame just to get to my incensed cold fury. How I ignore the bad news you spread ill of me yet sheltered by my shadow, an enigma only you know why I'm still quiet.

Is it me being weak treating you as my equal even though we both know we're not so you don't feel left out? Am I in the wrong side of strong for sharing my glory for your shine? Amazing how you keep holding my loop wherever I go but saying it out loud how a made man you are, alpha male for a zeta male I am.

In conclusion: it’s easy for you to define but still a tough nut to crack for me the fine example of it. In some instances the ones being defined as weak are actually the strong ones in disguise as the very self-defined strong ones are carried over by us the weak. And so you know, I am not that brash and macho for your liking but am loving the who I am and proud of how I turned out to be, shaped by each utter of your negativity. The truth is that everything I’m not for you maketh you be envious of everything you want to be of me, a brave and subtle charismatic sole you secretly aspire to be figured as...dp

[The struggle of success]

Yesterday's announcements and activities a story told today, future a now definer of what today will be, come tomorrow, as past a history coded in the present account.

The drawn map of struggle beauties a unique unifier that gets left out sooner than the growth of struggle wrinkles can contemplate on opting to show up. So baffling how we discard the actual hardships faced for true triumphs of monetary glorification.

A lot of us don't love former shades of our lives in shift to celebrate the glamorous cast of success we molded of self where friends turn to frenemies, family to outcasts, a whole new side to ugliness reined in by a neutral state of situation called progress. Sad days of loneliness inside cliques of maulers called new friends, haunted by the shine spotting us.

Erosion of morality a daily wail of soles acquainted to the success amassers. Those names and faces that paved our paths to glory days forgotten like a child's pain of morning hunger; them treated as waste to our self-made etaphics of memories.

In conclusion: it doesn't matter how you made it to what you are, fact remains that you had someone having your back as who you were but why's it so hard to thank them? Let's go back to our bases and grace their greatness with our humbleness before their befitting corneas...dp

[Surprise excellence]

This was the first time in years that I couldn't hold back my tears for something that hit me in a different way. Something good I must say, happened to me yesterday as I was taking a stroll with a friend who's a content advisor and blog contributor. He asked me to accompany him to some client of his where I was greeted by his print outs of my blog's quotes mostly and other bits of this and that on his wall. My friend asked him some questions about me and found out he knew less but much for me was the level of the content he has.

After many good things I heard about my blog I was more than humbled, especially after my friend asked him what he'd do if he were to meet KgeleLeso and he said it'll be awesome and a wish he had after reading a few of the blog's pages. Said quiet a book full of what he'd tell him should they ever meet, until he said to him that it were better he face him right there and tell that to him and we both froze. I didn't know how to react as he asked if he's joking or for real that I'm me and that indeed am in his office. It was an honour for me. Nothing in my life beat that in the whole world. To have someone celebrate my presence in their space, priceless.

We ended up chatting for hours going through piles of my new and old works, it was tedious but thrilling at the same time to have someone experience me. And with this article I take my time to thank them for having given me that, and again thanking you all who keep taking their time to visit us everyday. Without your views and those comments there wouldn't have been more material to push honestly 'cause you necessitate that. I thank you with all my heart.

In conclusion: being a blogger is a great deal I now know, thanks to you guys. The magical part of it is in how we paint each temporarily with shadows as we meet and pass one another as strangers until we put recognition to you. How we build pictures of what certain people may be looking like is laughable when we meet them in the flesh.

The element of surprise to excellence is always a classic moment for me. Whomever I met all of them don't see me in myself. The level of excellence is too way off better than what they get to meet and some believe only once tested me at times. In short, my point here is that the frame and look aren't what make one be, but what's upstairs is. What I can't hide though is the joy I get when surprise excellence sting them. I'm no genius but a simple ordinaire who's a hardworking juggler in spaces he's interested in, thus I prefer working sans being in limelight. Let's keep being the surprise of excellence and be inspiring others...dp

  

[Belief over faith]

I have to admit that it's not everyone who asks themselves about this but a must for anyone who has hope for a better outcome. Some people are believers in self while others having faith in themselves.

The difference in the two is in how they view and draw inspiration from those dissimilar sources. The believer in self is dependent on their innate drive for their success, and the faith upholder turning to the higher being for their way through that's depriving selves the comfort of knowing they can make it on themselves by opting to put a virtual deity of all might in power to steer their output.

What's interesting is that the ability to be and do to become the desired outcome effectors lies solely in them, just that they need to project their sources of inner strength that is based on something. The power that they possess gets weakened every time they ignore it for some systematic force of yester world order that still prevails in today's world order that's guised by some as the era of the fourth industrial revolution. A meed goes to the break-away few who choose to run with the master key to unlock the door of reality to see what's beyond the world of this virtual deity.

In conclusion: it doesn't matter how you handle your outcome effection, but entails your derivation of passion bellowing. Faith and belief are passion ridden, albeit sans definitions of mental wiring. The core issue here is the rationale that it all but lies within you to determine how you channel your manner of self-motivation...dp

 

[Fear free niceties]

"Despise the free lunch if you want to retain your independence" [1], Robert Greene said. Being an untouchable one is pricier than thought, and none’ll tell you that. Sadly, what I’ve learned is that lessons you receive in life aren’t premeditated for you, but needing you to be ever ready for another lesson after the one you’ve just had all the time. Boitumelo Madisha said that "we’re in class all the time in life, and we live in write of our daily rights and wrongs" [2]. And, in addition to that I say: ‘Life’s rights are wrongs of wrongs learned to be unwronged’ [3].

We all started from zero and did things that left us up or down, but all being results of us having done something, of which matters more than having done nothing at all. It’s better being named something somewhere; a somebody who failed or made it, than a nobody nowhere. But then, comes a point where you get to be somewhere in life where you get offered nice things. What you should always ask self is what do they want of you, how big the want is, whom it benefits, and where it’ll leave you? There’re things that if not question their motive for their end result, will leave you with a scathed end goal. Your independence is mightier and attractive to a lot of opportunists to derail it, so, stay firm.

Should you master your heart and mind, know that your life’s just begun. Knowing your purpose in each space you find self occupying is important for your growth and certainty. It helps in letting you pick where to invest most of your time at. Again, who’s at loss for your time in your availability? Go where you’re needed sans staying too long to the point of free lunch, and where it is advanced, to make sure you contribute somehow so you leave being level with the host. It is funny I know but it’s key in weighing your scale on future return favours and other related burdens.

Be fearful of anything nice and freely given because when someone offer something nice for free, chances are they expect something in return as some are genuine gifts with no strings attached whilst some are nothing but pure hooks to capture you by. Hooks come in many ways like free info about something valuable to you, free cost service to you, free access to someone or something, etc, that results in you receiving special treatment or favour over others. So, if you can guard against such you’ll leave a happy life. Free niceties are a daily thing for those in high places that are but not giving them joy they expected out of them. Next time someone advances a free nicety you need to probe for their reason and intent thereof before your decision otherwise you’ll regret it later. Asking before acceptance gives you a chance at opting in or out. In the real world nothing is ever free, best they be reminded lest they forgot. Know always, your independence rely on that answer from them and in how you respond to it. Accept anything that is of meaningful boost to your life for such carries value of direct impact.

In conclusion: it doesn’t matter how and who the giver is, be sure to give back sooner or later, unless it be a return of favour to you. Put yourself in the position of leverage all the time, make others owe you favours in return rather. Be generous and you’ll have a powered life...dp

[1] by Robert Greene (Power ; 1998)
[2] by Boitumelo Madisha

[3] by Kgele Leso.

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[Break away aftermath]

In politics, sports, marriage, friendship, partnership, and religion, there's always a break away from the one you rooted for and at times claimed as the best and are prepared to die for. But then, in a moon's shadow hear that that self-proclaimed supporter has defected from or defeased their affiliation or allegiance. This's just the nature of anything done in joint, it has probability of a split.

When we form any entity, there're different ways to it. The formation may be a union or organization or movement, but what is sure to happen is that there's a way of doing it and that alone a build up to a bind. It doesn't matter if it's a formal or informal thing, but the bind by nature brings with a bond that breeds a culture and secrecy that accompanies it.

What one should ask during the formation of the bind is what to do after the failure of their relationship, suppose it reach a dead end. This isn't negativity or doomsaying but rather a factual forethought that deserves a place in the formation phase, else you'd be lying to selves if avoid the subject. Truth is, the most of people who break away from a particular faction or group to the other do harm in order to be accepted into the other, and what they say or do a betrayal of trust had in them. So, what to do with such in such an instance?

In conclusion: a break away a cultbust on its own that deserves a measure of nipping it at instance if not at source point. Any sole that turns its back on its promise not worth of existence and extolment. A traitor of trust if not made to learn their wrong is unacceptable will not cease. A big "if but" is when the promise wasn't followed by "what if you surrender?" question.

The break away is natural phenomenon of any bind it's a known fact that just needs a structured channel or procedure to it's mutuality. How you build should be in sync with its demolition same as take off having a landing. What is clear is the justification of dealing with deviation from the set mutuality agreed to as a collective during formation. And but, the deep water horizon to penalties and other ways to the element of that break away remains a skysill left to the collective to navigate its turbulence with clean break.

A break away aftermath should be a continuum not a damage to where you were. It should be a move that doesn't leave a bitter taste in others mouths, so, be that example of showing the correct way to it by following internal protocols...dp