[Beneficial enmities]

They say, money buys you a different class of enemy, and I concur. For those of us who don't have much it won't make sense until the day we get there. Enmity doesn't just happen, it emanates from natural hatred, historic relations, family ties, and influenced disfavour. It doesn't matter the nationality, gender, religion, age, race, social status, it just gets subjected unto you.

Many a time you find that the main reason is jealousy. Jealousy stems out of a lot of stuff like success, likeability, life background, and many others that others just can't swallow easy if not at all. What's alarming though, is that, most of the times it's from people you consider close to you. Hate and jealousy don't like imports, they export to you their bad energies.

The crestfallen fact that you need to line up for its enema, is the fact that enmity gets inroads into your system through your very own akin, and that's the worst ever means of betreyal to anyone. So, to be safe, know how to use enemies agin each other. Be the cool stupid, and it'll be easier to deal them contra.

But, one cannot hide the pain that comes with finding out or witnessing a strong dislike from your akin. Thing is, it goes way too deep and having the potential to disunite a clan. A one good fabrication has the potential of crumbling a bonded family. Even though they say, it gets messed by a tongue and can be mended same, but it rarely wipe out the memory altogether sadly, it keeps lingering. There's just no pain like that, and I reckon you know.

In conclusion: people you have a history with are always a displeasure to rattle, so, savour your relations with them. It but should be noted that in business it's always about scores to settle, and being enemies doesn't last longer than rivalry. To have a class of that enemy a safe haven, unlike people surrounding you but with crocodile jaws after your skull to crunch. Better an open enemy to manage than one in your pocket busy sizing you up with every of your move. One secret I leave you with is, align your negatives with an enemy that benefits you, if it doesn't, move on for it's not worth the effort. Tag never an enemy that's useless, for that's a waste of your time and progress. Tailor enemies that gives you growth and success. Know how to invest and develop self around your enmities, that's class. Gauge your tensions, your gains lie in them...dp