[Clashing passions]

Whom to punch when you feel the need to? Why you punch them, only you knows the answer to that. But truth be told, it doesn't help a bit. You just need to understand yourself in order to work with yourself. What you are and what you're best at, who you are and who you're best at, should be the centermark of your fold.

We can't run away from the fact that we're naturally set in binariness as beings, male and female, personality and character, who you are and what you are, then comes the missing middle as a convolute filler (non-binaries), i.e. ambivert, queer, medium, etc. If you're not certain of your centermark you're going to differ on many fronts with self when your inner versus your outer. What you are should make way for who you are when things are normal and to come back to the fore on rise to an occasion when there is a need to, if you're to live a life that's not pejorated. Life needs to be prorate, and so is same with passions and aspirations.

As a person you need to understand what you want out of your being so that you don't get to experience any clash of your passions. In some, who they are differs from what they are when it comes to doing what they love. At times people do what they have to do to get by but not be serving their passion, whilst with others be the case of not knowing what to do first and which to follow after. With that said, the question now be: "Do you do what you love or do you do that which is necessary to be done?" This lessens the confusion others encounter and struggle with in pursuing what they desire.

Finding what you truly love doing is a must for anyone but not for everyone to do. Living your dream is a blessing that almost everyone wishes for, and but not because of letting realities of life take over their chance at happiness. Be your first reality before anything else throw in your path its reality. It's your life to live and you get only one chance at that, so, be the controller and juxtapose your desires so you don't run into commotion of passions.

In conclusion: as you know, as a leader you need empathy not harshness, and should have that for self too. Spread your passions and aspirations by writing your own story of success and live each day pursuing it, your wrongs and rights will be illuminated by your deeds. Do what you want if you're at liberty to, and do what is required of you if you're free to do, but be sure to never serve two centermarks at the same time. Be true to self, and let your passions rule your alignment...dp