[Importance of love in respect]

Respect, the heartline of leadership. Who knows of a leader who isn't feared? But then again, it shouldn't be that fear of their capabilities but rather abilities. If you're a leader it comes naturally to be a figure worth respecting with but an element of fear. Many enjoy it and but are those whom just don't at all, like me. Fear isn't a good start unlike plainly respect with set boundaries.

Fear in respect works for them I know, but it just doesn't bear fruits all the times in that approach becomes suffocated in the process. What's the use of leading people who can't bring their selves to you? Fear is borne out of good intentions at times I've realized that, but still not approving of it though. Fail Eventualized After Retake, or FEAR, shouldn't be felt advanced at first instance, but it happens with people upon seeing you for the first time because of your position or hearing about you from someone. What I personally enjoy is a person who respect my person without putting theories to it.

They say, "if you love it, set it free and if it comes back to you, know it's yours" and it for me seem same as with respect and fear. My question then is, what to do if it never comes back? My fear is of losing what I love same as fearing to lose that which I respect. What I am against, is to have one fear me as a sign of respect. Why should you fear if you adore someone or respect them? As a leader I want to move with people who enjoys my being with them than they thole the time for their benefits.

In conclusion: why not respect with love? Who made it acceptable to respect with fear to an extent of people's fear over one's abilities? We need to abolish this unhealthy norm. We need to respect not of what you are, what you have, what you can do, no, but respect rather who you are as a person...dp

 

[Political apathy rewards]

Penury a harsh political apathy reward to the perfidy. Life is a course that depends on your cause of lead in living it. When it comes to how you make out what you are from the form shaped in your image and name, none can be of better charge than you.

Some of the lessons of life can't go sans attention afforded them. What you learn on success, opportunity, value's worth, promise honoring, size, sub-source, etc, need to be based on a certain platform of education and specific medium. After you have that knowledge, follows the ways of entry and survival, of which are all tied to conformity. One of the elements of that is political education.

The role of politics to global society is of importance to everyone residing within its many territories irrespective of their background. What's happening around you is demanding of your attention to it, and most of that bulk should be politics. One thing good about politics is that there's no pressure for you to join in, but rather following up on them. Truth is, like it or not, they affect your day to day living.

I know there're those who said they were not interested in politics, and now in old age, running away from their selves to blame for their choices made then when realizing what a blunder they made in their youth days. It doesn't matter where in the world you're positioned, politics play a vital role in your life. Politics alter courses of life, influence the complexion of one's day's thought to base their act, force change in feel and view, challenge your planning, and dominate the content you consume.

In conclusion: life and leadership lessons aren't meant to be hard, only you choose what you shape of your shadow. Whether you had hope and dream for yourself, be sure your attitude to life doesn't become a lie to them. One of the ways to avoid hiding away in your future is doing the right things now, and doing one of them is a favour unto self to follow politics. It's hurtful to say the fact that ignorance of politics is punishable as a win to the ruler of the day. Also, your ignorance an agenda on its own...dp

 

[Shift shifts for change?]

If you're good at it, be good for it. There's a growing number of young practitioners in multiple sectors who think that being good at something means you're to be in all or many others. This is dangerous to the growth of many practitioners. For some extent, do more if it's in line and if it assures sustainable development.

The application of knowledge acquired is challenged at times by the way it's offered to those in need of it. How it gets packaged is in itself a big worry. You find a consultant engineer selling self as a generalist, all in the name of diversification you'll be told as a reason. It sure does sound great to someone who think it's wise to, but honestly a bad idea in that the solution seeker of today wants a specialist, and a one-stop destination if only there's a dot connection.

How the middle-aged do business is a bit different from how the young are doing it it's no secret. But then, something that's worth noting is that their success is of envy in that it is rapid than in the case of the middle-aged. This is possible via the aid of technology and earlier exposure to internet of things, big data usage comprehension, and other means of life easing information and communication skills required for exploitation thereof.

Research has shown that the most disadvantaged class is the middle-aged in business as they're the "hard work pays" believers and are the living testament to that. Young business people use money provided for by the old money for their legacy carryover, again use technology that is mostly developed by capitalization capacity from the old money, and this said to be the case that is in its second phase of happening. Testators tend to skip the immediate predecessors in favour of their offspring, thus leaving them to work hard for stability, growth and torch passing.

In field of study, it has shown that indeed there's a shift in business and it's factored by new technology and access to now era resources. How the consumer of the day is conditioned resultant from a mixed bag of realized eventualities and actualities. How business of today answers to the new consumer behavior a definite not of future consumer. What we can't be sure of is the delivery of offers of services and goods in the future if they'll be in response to consumer behavior or be in consumer behavior shaping, as is now evidenced.

In conclusion: it doesn't say whom is better than whom, or whom is spoilt, or in any way pointing a finger at any generational class, but a fact that with time a lot gets done differently including in how business is done. One thing per observations of today's market is that there seem to be better adoption and the rate of change response higher paced than it has been before, and as such, informing us that the market shift is lagging behind consumer adaptation to change factors. And then again, if it's a case of one being good at many facets and not thinking they can be good, can then service their diversified market and those specialists service theirs. It now remains to be seen if whether there'll be a single tick form of consumer behavior or be it the status quo orthodoxy as the big question being that, "is shift shifting for change?"...dp

[Kings & Queens of poverty]

'Respect them, but fear none' [1] we all have learnt. You'll have that shine in time and but when grace falls, great becomes the pain from the laugh at your failure to finish with retirement of the sun. So, to you, what's the shine you've lost in your life? Is it of your doing or by design? The way to you won't be said straight as it is, for truth is an agenda.

What Africa is swimming in currently, a tip no utterance can afford it its supposed solace. The daily attacks are coming from all angles and on the other hand is the long lost shields they keep fighting over as if they got no answer of where and whom to they lost them. How we feel about the 1884 conference, the Arab betrayal through slave trading, together with many other gatherings of like is of no use and significance to them, a worse stair to disharmony to one's inner.

The education we received from that day a continua to self-destruction. Living in a global village but made to pay the price for your innocent curiosity so you find it better rested in diluted inquisitiveness as what suits your kind. The treatment meted out to this humble nation a shame that is unfortunately a trophy of belonging out there. Africans, why are we still ashamed to act out what their project has resulted in us? Let's keep intensifying the taste of their architecture ignorantly back to them. So proud of Morocco over their latest move. It should be loud to the Spanish civilians that it's actually not against them but their government.

Ecuador has for the past 11 days or so being voicing out their disgruntled feeling against rising energy and food prices, though media elected to turn a blind eye on. Examples like these are vivid to you Africa, rise against the tide and rely on your wisdom and strength to make new shields to protect oneself with. Wake up, see how this system of theirs slowly keeps us strewn in generational curse after the other. Africa, cut chasing after the charismatized rhetoric of timeless change for it's not for your today or tomorrow, but for them and their coming generations. Be worried of who you've become after who you were, so as to shape your future generations.

In conclusion: whether you give respect to champions of your poverty design, entirely up to you and your conscience, but their doings had a generational rippling effect on dignity, confidence, identity, self-based worth, etc, as a people, as they through their instrumentation went straight for the crown via a humanomics quadradia against your financial triquadia. And like my brother and friend said "know your why" [2], I then say "Africa, ask to know your why" and you're to know why you're lost unto self, why you lost your purpose, why you lost to false promise, why you lost your possessions; and clawing back your power will be a realized eventuality when children of the soil start questioning all these Kings and Queens of poverty...dp

[1] by copyright control.

[2] by Mr Mohlatlego Mokumo.

[What's important about impact?]

What's important about impact? I've been on a loop mode around this question. Is it maybe I am stuck on something that's not even worth mentioning? I kept asking myself until I decided to jot something about it.

Impact is used in many cases and in many ways. But then, how do you use it in your case? Impact can affect economy by word, act or say, can affect your course of life through an experience or occurrence, can also be a good or bad takeaway, it can be in many ways. It but feels good if it's in you and having a positive effect on the nexts through its possession.

You can find impact in almost anyone and anything. What matters is what one does with that of theirs. You can grow the next person through it, influence a result through it, build a nation through it, and, how one does that remains a subject of importance.

In conclusion: when you think of impact it brings feelings, hopes, future, age, and any other subject attached. This subject is attention seeking but not given much if not none, and reason why, I still struggle to comprehend that. This necessitated by the way governments and business are run, which leaves us with a lasting impact from those results, hence this subject is important.

What impact is, is power, influence and possibility in one. For those who recognize impact for what it is, knows how to use it to gain respect as well as give it to others responsibly...dp

[Life in the normal lane]

Who gets excited when you arrive? What do they say when they greet you? How do they feel when your name is called? It's not a question of boasting or self importance or any of that, but rather about you being the statement sans saying or doing any of the above. It's about presence, about being the center of their craze, the proof that they are important just by your gracing of their space.

None follows what doesn't move, none changes tune for one sans feelings shift, as a personal brand you ought to factor such as you build your aura. Get into the thinner frame of your thicker things and you'll understand what tabloids, social media and those influencers are after. Be interesting to be, to be seen, to touch, to be heard, to think of and talk about. The value of you lies in your carrying of self.

How many times have you been up to no good? How many times were you looked at in a certain way? How many times did they misunderstood you? How long if it's ever been? This should be the staple of your brand in it to be relevant. Try being irrelevant to the normal range you are used to, and do spontaneity for once and trail your log. Think of everyone that you follow, think of everything you want to be, think of nothing you've done before and imagine a totally different you, and you'll get your lane.

Many characters gets lost due to them being fronted through personalities that are punchless. A personal brand is about you and your all, be ready to bare all out there with no shame. The challenge with a lot is their less pressure to their course and allow pressure to their course, and as a result then be diluting their purpose. To connect the two sides to your person, it requires you to know your equilibrium first, else you're doomed.

In conclusion: why should you be followed? Are you a being of worth? That should cross your path when creating you to become what you project of self as envisioned. To the nexts, what are they finding pleasurable of you? If you don't know what people think about you, you're lost. Why do you want to be a brand? Do you want to be emulated? Are you ready for such? How many shames have you dealt with for your chorus of life? Who has let you in on the secrets of that which you want. Life in the normal lane fails interest...dp

[The pains of development]

At times we clearly are on the fence when it comes to growth. Your immediate environment and its surrounding areas are not the same as then, thanks to development. The challenge we all are faced with now is that of an influx of foreign nationals into our central business districts. The numbers are alarming. Some may lament opportunities they lose of employment due to that fact, high crime stats, and so forth, but I’d like to touch on rather a different subject we choose to turn a blind eye on.

Language and lifestyle dynamics

Due to them being on every corner, our young bloods tend to be too close to them and results are teenage pregnancy, drug abuse and high early school drop-out rates. In some countries, people do that in order to qualify citizenship status and social grant claims, the thorny issue often put in hind is the question of language the child will speak at home.

If a child is born out of wedlock, which language should be the first to the child? Also, even if the foreign father marries the mother, it still remains puzzling if we don't have the father's language among the official languages in the respective territory. Then, if the mother lets that pass and let the child speak the foreign language, how will the child cope with having to switch from speaking that language to that of the mother’s when out at school and when playing with friends?

The other challenge which I struggle with is that of squatting. Just imagine this: a girl meets a foreign guy who works at the local mall building construction site. As we all know, construction on such sites takes long to reach completion. They elect to squat in the girl’s one-roomed shack and in no time sire a child. Within a short space of time they welcome another one. After completion there is no other job to do and the man stays on and together at a later stage they get blessed again with another child before trotting to another place to work on another construction project and leaving them behind forever.

Ask yourself how old the first born will be when they try for the third child, bearing in mind that all the sensual activities happening in that very same shack in presence of the child. What that child witness at that delicate stage of development will never escape their mind. What does the future holds for that particular child? What such a situation brings about is the next generation of rapists, wanton youths and mentally scarred hoodlums.

Early childhood development scuppered

Three or four years of age, the scenes a child grasps in their head will linger for a long time to come. What as parents should be doing is shield them from bad and negative occurrences to their upbringing. 

It is not that I’m xenophobic or otherwise, but just bringing to the fore one of the contributors to our nation’s social ills. What needs be told is that this also is the case with our own locals who migrate from province to province doing temporary jobs. On daily basis things happen that in future will impact us in a big way unimaginable today, be them done by foreign nationals or by our own locals.

In conclusion: 'If it’s from the heart, it’ll touch other hearts'[1]. Denying a child a decent environment to grow from is an injustice. Failing a child with a stable language to grow speaking, is a slow poison to both esteem and self-knowledge of the child. Giving a child a habitable and stable home is any young one’s dream and a birth right. Thus will ensure our nation’s moral fibre stays intact, in balance and defensible at all costs.

And, the next time you consume a sippet and flashing to all those who care to look at your expensive horologe, think of the shortcomings of others and appreciate your background. Think of what you can do to help another sole to better a child’s life so as to can avoid recurrences of such mishaps from being experienced further. Develop your local economy with your people being truly empowered, and your country will be the envy of many out there...dp

[1] by KgeleLeso