[Be selectively undesirable]

Seeing that "what proof do you have?" being the new "I'm guilty", it's safe to say that you are entitled to self restraint in how you associate. There's no demanding time than now when it comes to accountability, but some of the organs of society still at large and hiding in vacuum, rejecting responsibility needed applied to declare self transparent.

As life livers, we meet a lot of challenges that at times are of our own doing. If one can start limiting self to too much access into their life, too much availability for just about anyone, not taking care whom is there or not in your time of need, and stealing from their stability to satisfy others, then will they know to live in peace. The minute your self love and care hurts the next, know they never were the one for you.

I sometimes ask myself why anything that is peaceful tending to be offensive to most of ones connected to your circle. It's not amazing why the progressive spend most of their quality time inside themselves than with others in surround. Progress, just like money, finds belonging where serene reigns. Be by intent for deeds that sees surrounders scarce. True value is alive where the sole is not a socialite.

Seeking clarity where prevailing noise is compoundly mistaken for presence, opting to keeping withdrawn becomes an artform. It's about palisading your circle, prioritizing quality over quantity, and embracing the beauty of solitude. When you stop seeking validation from others, you start to realize that your worth isn't tied to your social scorecard. You're not obligated to entertain, to impress, or to justify your existence to anyone. It's like you wake up from a dream that raked heavenly from your lost hours.

Set boundaries, create space for meaningful connections to flourish. You're not being antisocial; you're being selective. You're choosing to invest in relationships that uplift, inspire, and support you, rather than draining your energy and compromising your peace. Be kind from a position of power, nobody gives liberty in the center of freedom hoarders; let them read from the air sans a word and they'll start revealing intents.

As you muster your guard for mastering the art of being selectively undesirable, you'll notice a shift in how people interact with you. Those who truly value you will respect your boundaries and appreciate your worth. Those who don't will fade away, making room for the right people to enter your life. It's a liberating feeling, knowing that you're not responsible for pleasing everyone but yourself.

In conclusion: being selectively undesirable is about taking ownership of your life, your time, and your energy. It's about recognizing that your presence is a gift, and you get to choose who receives it. And, be unreasonable to the user and premium tiedowns (high liability people) in your life. You can't afford to be agreeable to everyone, you need to apply your governance over the power people who have easy entries in. Don't be concurrent with unanimous disrespect on you...dp

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[Casualties of success]

Taking it from the top, success is a consequence, a bittersweet harmony that opens up pencil erased wounds long ignored in lie to mind as forgotten. Reality is, as we celebrate the triumphs of successful individuals and biznesses, we often overlook the hidden costs of achievement. The relentless pursuit of success can leave a trail of casualties in its wake, affecting not only the individuals themselves but also their loved ones, colleagues, and even society as a whole.

As an outcome everyone hope for and lauds, it but has its negative drawbacks that are often untold. Many success stories lay awake in their ululation as they left behind countless hidden skeletons of win. On the back of success rides a tale of tears of another for their losses; either of market closure, or monetary temperance of either the loser if not the used, or the hurt from betrayal patterns of circumventions and selling outs of aiders. A lot can be traced back to the beautiful result we admire in aspire sans knowing its dirt and darkness.

And, as we bask in the glory of success, we rarely pause to consider the wreckage left in its wake. The discarded dreams, the shattered relationships, and the emotional toll of maintaining a façade of invincibility. The winners are often left to grapple with the weight of their own sanitized guiltprints, negotiating with conscience if the cost was too high, while the losers are left to pick up the pieces and wonder what could have been.

The mythology of success would have us believe that it's solely the result of hard work, talent, and determination. But what about the role of circumstance, luck, and privilege? What about the countless others who worked just as hard, but didn't quite make it? The inconvenient truth is that success is often a zero-sum game, where one person's win is balanced by another's loss. Its narrative at times overlooks the intricate web of factors that contribute to an individual's or organization's triumph. It's as if success is a highlight reel, carefully curated to showcase the most impressive moments, while the behind-the-scenes struggles, doubts, and setbacks are conveniently omitted from the official story that holds the potential for learning and self-discovery.

Consider the entrepreneurs who risk everything to turn their vision into reality, only to find themselves minding the financial and emotional fallout of their decisions. Or the artists who sacrifice years of their lives to hone their craft, only to face rejection and obscurity. The costs of success can be staggering, and they're often borne by those who are least equipped to handle them.

The pressure to succeed can also lead to a culture of toxic positivity, where individuals feel compelled to present a façade of perfection, even when they're struggling to keep up. This can perpetuate a cycle of burnout, anxiety, and isolation, as people feel like they're failing if they don't meet the unrealistic expectations they've set for themselves. Moreover, the emphasis on success can lead to a narrow definition of what it means to be successful in the first place. We tend to celebrate only a select few who've achieved a certain level of wealth, status, or recognition, while ignoring the countless others who've made significant contributions to their communities, industries, or fields of study.

In conclusion: ultimately, success is a multifaceted and deeply personal concept that defies simple definition. Perhaps it's time to redefine what success means to us, and to recognize that it's not just about achieving a specific outcome, but about living a life that's true to our values, passions, and purpose, a state by which you connect not by esteem but through meaning.

And, though oftentimes not said, the pain from success a penny of wisdom to cherish and behold, as it grows us in failure and sharpens us in unfulfilled wins. In the end, it's not the triumphs alone that define us, but the sum of our struggles, our perseverance, and our capacity to find meaning in the darkness. May we learn to honor the pain, celebrate the victories, and find solace in the wisdom that only experience can bring, coz success is a double-edged sword, bringing both admiration and regret, often simultaneously...dp

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[Corporate patience a commercial virtue]

It's true that time is money, it can't be wasted and waits for no man. With that general framing of thought in persons, it's no wonder why in today's fast-paced biznes environment, patience often seen as a weakness. We're constantly bombarded with messages that urge us to act quickly, make impulsive decisions, and prioritize speed over substance. However, this couldn't fall further from the bag of truth. Corporate patience is a commercial virtue that can make all the difference between success and failure.

Corporate patience allows for biznesses to navigate complex situations better, have more informed decisions that enables leaders to take a long-term view and drive sustainable growth. Instead of acting rashly, patient companies can weather setbacks, build stronger relationships with stakeholders, and allow ideas time to mature, ultimately leading to greater success than a purely rapid themed approach. It is not passive waiting, but rather an active process of strategic delay and calm perseverance, which form the foundation upon which successful biznesses are built.

Host benefits to this results in increased trust that drives loyalty and retention, morphed competitive advantage that sets the biznes apart from competitors, innovation and creativity through exploration of new ideas and approaches, and risk mitigation by avoiding impulsive decisions that can have negative consequences. This will set your biznes on a course that will see it spiral out of control in the right direction in that it'll be against industry norms and thus guaranteeing an unstoppable disruption in not only one front.

This feat can be realized with ease by doing the following: (1) cultivating a focused culture of setting realistic expectations with a clear understanding that success takes time; (2) process adherence by prioritizing the journey, not just the destination; (3) practicing mindfulness by applying techniques that helps leaders to stay grounded and patient, even in challenging situations; (4) encourage open communication to foster an environment where team members feel comfortable sharing concerns and ideas, which thus helping to identify potential issues early on; and lastly by developing an exemplary leadership model that demonstrates the value of patience in decision-making and relationship building.

In conclusion: with the eventuation of living in a world where instant gratification is the norm, patience is a rare commodity to exchange. Thus underlined, it but remains an underscored virtue that's essential for biznes success. Many an entity have failed to happen simply because of having given up right before their sunrise. By embracing corporate patience, biznesses can become hubs of unmolested collaboration, neutral equanimity, and spaces to surrender effort with belonging. So, take a deep breath, slow down, and remember that patience is a systematic strength, not an incentivized weakness. It's time to make patience a core part of your biznes strategy and reap the rewards...dp

©2k25. ddwebbtel publishing

 

[How should history remember you?]

"Exposure experienced has no reason to doubt any simpatico or not of comparison bout tons extracted out of the events relived" [1]. I open with this because of what happens to the memories of the recorded moments during the whole course of the eventuation. Once an occurrence retire from your past, a timeline trail it becomes and ultimately in essence taking reside as one's history.

Your mind is a colony of thoughts, having a hold for control of your being. How each thought is conceived and allocated goes to the set content curation from the daily consumption of feed you ascribe to. They say you are what you consume, and this is very true and evident in even what you put your time on. The product you shape of self in become is a choice mastered by not only you but rather in aid of algorithmic tailoring of your content feed trail collected sans your consent yet in subconscious consenting.

The danger of becoming that which you consume is an enigmatic corner none of the exposed are willing to take others to for their experience for safety. It is but understandable given how of late anything you say and found to be against the group thinking is deemed negative or toxic. People are conditioned to shun any new information that is naturally heavy and but accommodating of which is light and insignificant. This is a challenge that is facing a myriad of practitioners in diverse fields.

In conclusion: how you opt to be remembered goes to how you opt to do what you do. What you are isn't always how you'll be remembered last as, and but possible to be designed by you. How you expose self to the vast plethora of life giving's heightens the compound of who and how your last memory becomes in those you encountered. Whether it be by video, audio, still pictures, or personal engagement, it matters how the last moment was in each space you occupied.

People talk about experience they had with you and, almost all the time about your last. With thus telegraphed, a day's exposure of you to someone can be summed up in one, two or three keywords that will describe to the recipient a whole lot more than done initially by you yet be it that they're not wrong about you. As such, control the narrative of you. Control how you are remembered, by patterning your interactions with others always, either as a personal brand or about your corporate brand. Be consumed differently and history will remember you same...dp

[1] by KgeleLeso

2K25. ddwebbtel publishing

[Solidify structure from the onset]

Gimmicks are best left for entertainers not deal makers, a philosophical business coach once said, and it has proved. I was afforded a space on a deal table this past weekend, and this saying made a feature in our negotiation medley. The challenge with the phenomenon that negotiations are, is the role players' mettle in them. Many may differ with this, but is my observation thus far and am not willing to be debating in defense my opinion of.

A simple introduction of role players in the deal has the potential to throw the deal off the rails if wrongly executed I just learned. If we enter the deal as a unit it should be kept at that as that, and no need to be casting nets of divisions by unprecedented answers. One shadow of doubt giving from a presentation can see the counterpart party driven off the deal sans haste. This as a result of something we fail to boldly adhere to, and that is structure. Who is who and not in the unit formation is vital from the onset of any given presentation or engagement.

It's a fundamental key to have positions assigned and responsibilities embodied at all cost when doing business, especially as a team. It helps in clearing off corporate clutter that invites confusion to counterparts and recipients. This is mostly found in merged operations like joint ventures and partnerships. To avoid unnecessary and expensive damage to organizational repute, spend excessive time on role assignments religiously as it can upset an otherwise significant evolution.

In conclusion: one of the strengths of a team is role assignment, and it will remain so for decades to come. When entering a deal any team goes in confidently when set with its structure. They establish a rhythm and evidenced in how they take questions and ask questions, and that an ever impressive front for anyone who is on the hot table. Truth is, one reckless roamer a ruiner of the movement, it's clear as that. Simple things like concise answers and directive questions will save a team a headache of dealing with costly damage controls.

Bemind that 'a lustrum of inefficiency is a repeatable cycle if tweaks are discarded in favor of deficient tolerance to mediocrity' [1]. Normalizing resourceful teamliness should be a priority if we are to be painting set-form murals that display commissioned perception in the cortex of corporate culture and vertexed approach to your entity's chardy unison. But then, all else done correctly at roof level sans solidified foundation a futile render. Strengthen your roling structure from the get-go and your team will be unbeaten on many a hot table...dp

[1] by KgeleLeso
2K25. ddwebbtel publishing

 

[A beautiful story badly acted]

"Create a life that you cannot wait to wake up to"[1] Dana White said in an interview, and it resonates. Life is a story that you direct daily, and none wrong in how they direct theirs, dependent on the genre you choose for yours.

We all have bad and good, if not best scripted days, and doesn't matter as long as the script is acted out. To live your life with purpose you ought to have good actors to collaborate with, whom too are characters of own in their own. With days spent you have to question how many active hours does your script gets framed. Some is 18 while others 15 and so forth, and thus translating to the amount of time spent in sleep.

There's a story to every sole and it gets viewed by other story creators, and daily asking each other about the deeds roled by you. Success of every script is in its scenes and characters how diversiphiled they are, otherwise a chagrin guillotine will befall you. The story of you is in many forms instrumentalized in themes, and of them sprouts passion and commerce. To start the fire, what of your story can you sell?

In conclusion: people buy a lot in you and you have to know always that which sells quick or not, why it sells and to whom? All these will be answered by the crowd you pull to your circle as it is what makes your character judgment case. We almost all strive for the best story but unfortunately it isn't possible. A story can be well written but badly acted, and that a normal creative directorate dissidence evidenced in every chapter from time to time.

What now get to be entertained becomes the issue of time spent in sleep. What keeps you in bed for that long? For those few lucky ones with shorter times to sleep, we envy you if only it be out of not being able to wait for a day start to be on with that which you do 'cause as for others we don't want to be misquoted, you know those who can't have sleep due to skeletons in vaults and closets. If you love who you are and what you do it'll show with your story. A well written story is joyable to act in and so should be your life. 'Live a life carved out of beautiful intentions for a fulfilled storyline that will be able to kick characters out by delivery'[2].

Be ready to stay in shape of your first optioned character and do best to play first instances to the best of your ability to make your script stand out always for in this phenomenon called life, it's what matters. Don't let yours be a beautiful story acted bad...dp

[1] by Dana White
[2] by KgeleLeso

2K25. ddwebbtel publishing

[Prep masters]

Maybe the earth got tired of being round and turned flat I guess, jocularly so. But seriously, how does one ever get ready for such a meteoric change you may ask? Mmh, I wonder! I believe that's the exact reason it's important to have someone prep you for some of life's harsh turnouts, 'cause you can't be fully geared towards dealing with absorbing all the info funnel flooding just by oneself.

Going into every stage of your life you need a guide at times, though contingent on who you are and where you're stemmed mentally. There're people who don't have a problem with change whilst there're those who do, and none should take a pinch of reason to dwell indifferent in fjord umiaking. Life is like that, it's about introductions and knowledge takings, and we need mollifiers who'll undertake us through galleries of preventive and remedial arenas.

Before a girl wore a camisole she needs to be ready briefed over what it will bring for her, in relation to what it mean for the opposite gender, as armed with prior consequential knowledge standing from a seniority position to apply superiority choices over any forebode mishaps. A lot of things wouldn't have been as they are had it been possible for the unknowing to be prepped about the outcomes thereof. The role played by a parent is by no par undisputedly priceless, but outside of their circuit slotting in other path shapers pivotal to shaking the maketh of a child in a way that has potential to lead the child astray if adrift from their roots, thus it's imperative to cease never in keeping your child arrayed in your habitual loop, thusly a prep master is sought.

Distant from the dangers of not paying attention to your child, you too as a bearer can benefit immensely from a prep master. Every 7 years you enter into a new cycle and, though not seeing it, with aging comes maturity that breeds shifts, and that a case asame with either your child or spouse or sibling, etc. and to deal with some of these patterns needing an intuitive holistic guidance. Entering into a covenant is identical to its exiting, and that's where you meet divorce after marriage, disownment after parenthood, enmity post friendship, and so forth, and all needing more than counseling at times.

Prepping is in many ways more in that it covers counseling, mentoring, parenting and advisory. Prep masters offer advision and aboarding to the prepped, dubbed prepees. Quietly tattooing a striking hypoglamia (alt.hypoglamorous) hieroglyph, prep mastering is an umbraged province of knowledge that carves a cultic niche that's to remain laid in residence within the niche-spread tapestry of premium taper knowledge, that if given a try will then taste the benefit difference. It converts one into a multiversed material that with time instantly attracts favour from affluent soles that matters. It's an investment that shows no muscles yet innate developing steadily with timing for that unstoppable evergreen readiness.

In conclusion: professionally, to be that unadvertenced agenda ridden sought material, you can't be stuck in a circumambulated track, you ought to step progressively in a manner unfamiliar to the generics. 'Be in a rubric of solo note, and your tone will ring fancy to the league phantoms' [1]. Allow self to be built for becoming a prowess power magnet and opportunity magnate. Differentiate yourself from the rest of the investment mongers' pack and live the life of the headhunted.

The obvious challenge remains to date: "how do you find one?" and but the short answer is: "there's no need" reason being that they find you in your own lane and align with your archetype to reform you. Prep masters are blank ordinaires that're hard for one to roam in their realms yet charitable with accessibility, just but not benevolent with aboarding. Seek their attention and they will advance for your boffo elevation...dp

[1] by KgeleLeso
2K25. ddwebbtel publishing